The Number (girlfriend, cheats, friend, cities)

[Hivemind31]

Originally Posted by McLovin'

Perhaps I'm in the minority, but the idea of a partner who I could help 'come into her own' or discover herself is a BIG turn on. The pros of an "experienced" woman have never outweighed the cons IME.

I'm not sure which opinion is more popular, but fwiw, I feel the opposite. I actually feel like I'm in the minority there, but couldn't say for sure.

[McLovin']

Originally Posted by Checkered24

Nope. If they are clean, I do not really see the difference. I do not buy into the stereotypes people build around this or jump to judgements on people based on stereotypes assumed out of behaviors.

I sort of look like it this way. If I like/love the person they are today, I should not negatively judge their past because it is eaxactly that past that has molded them into who they are today.

What a bunch of tra la la garbage. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

But here's the great equalizer: There's a lot of talk going on here, but is anyone brave enough to post their number?

Just curious. As they say out here in farm country, that's how you separate the wheat from the chaff.

[Checkered24]

Originally Posted by McLovin'

What a bunch of tra la la garbage. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

But here's the great equalizer: There's a lot of talk going on here, but is anyone brave enough to post their number?

Just curious. As they say out here in farm country, that's how you separate the wheat from the chaff.

Ah, better to stereotype people than evaluate them and their actions with you then.

I have been there, lived it.

Your experiences may vary.

[AdaptAndOvercome]

Originally Posted by McLovin'

What a bunch of tra la la garbage. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

But here's the great equalizer: There's a lot of talk going on here, but is anyone brave enough to post their number?

Just curious. As they say out here in farm country, that's how you separate the wheat from the chaff.

I'll bite. I am a 31 year old man, and I have been with 3 women total my entire life.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by McLovin'

What a bunch of tra la la garbage. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

What behavior are you speaking about? They're being sexual beings and so, they have sex?

[McLovin']

Originally Posted by Checkered24

Ah, better to stereotype people than evaluate them and their actions with you then.

I have been there, lived it.

Your experiences may vary.

I don't see it as stereotyping. Very, very few people, men or women, "change" to any significant degree.

Ignore peoples' past behavior patterns at your own peril.

How's that number coming along? Did you have to get out the calculator?

(I'm just ribbing you, this is in jest.)

I couldn't even tell you my actual number. But I think I can estimate pretty closely, as in +/- 10.

[JustJulia]

This scene comes to mind. (Not safe for work.)


Clerks - 37 - YouTube

[McLovin']

Originally Posted by timberline742

What behavior are you speaking about? They're being sexual beings and so, they have sex?

Bad behavior. In the context of this thread, that would be bad sexual behavior, as in compulsive or pathological sexual behavior.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by McLovin'

Bad behavior. In the context of this thread, that would be bad sexual behavior, as in compulsive or pathological sexual behavior.

What is bad sexual behavior?

Do you mean infidelity? Yeah, I could get not wanting to be with someone that cheats or has a history of cheating.

Or do you mean something else? Do you think a woman wanting sex in general is somehow "bad"?

[Laychick]

Originally Posted by AdaptAndOvercome

I'll bite. I am a 31 year old man, and I have been with 3 women total my entire life.

I find all of you only online.