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In the context of relationships, water seeks its own level - emotionally and physically.
A non smoker wants to be with a fellow non smoker, not someone who hates to have their clothes smelling of cigarette smoke.
A drinker wants to be with a drinker, not someone who thinks alcohol is evil.
A physically fit person wants a partner who can keep up with them on the trails of life.
This is not rocket science.
OK Mountains. I guess your logic explains the couples where one smokes and the other doesn`t, one drinks and the other doesn`t and a totally fit model type guy is dating a woman with a whole lot more that a couple of pounds? Your typical and practical is not everyone's cup of java. I was just asking if a guy with a fit body or a woman with a fit body can justify the same type of partner. It doesn't explain why there are obtuse looking couples with extreme body type differences.
Water is weak yet extremely powerful at the same time. Get my drift or are you just being facetious?
I keep myself in decent physical shape for myself first. It helps my feeling of well being, my state of mind, mental strength. My health.
I like being very strong.
The problem with some workout junkies is they do it for different reasons primarily. For example vanity reasons, to attract women. With that mindset they are more likely to have issues.
I keep myself in decent physical shape for myself first. It helps my feeling of well being, my state of mind, mental strength. My health.
The problem with some workout junkies is they do it for different reasons primarily. For example vanity reasons, to attract women. With that mindset they are more likely to have issues.
This is true. I saw a guy get his ass whipped in the gym by a trainer because he was showing off to the girls. That kind of pain I do appreciate dishing out if it's necessary.
Working out for you first and foremost is what matters.
OK Mountains. I guess your logic explains the couples where one smokes and the other doesn`t, one drinks and the other doesn`t and a totally fit model type guy is dating a woman with a whole lot more that a couple of pounds? Your typical and practical is not everyone's cup of java. I was just asking if a guy with a fit body or a woman with a fit body can justify the same type of partner. It doesn't explain why there are obtuse looking couples with extreme body type differences.
Water is weak yet extremely powerful at the same time. Get my drift or are you just being facetious?
What does that even mean?
What does "justification" have to do with anything when it comes to who we are attracted to?
You like who and what you like - no apologies or explanations required.
OP: I don't understand the question. Women have preferences and men have preferences. They are individual choices. Who is anyone to tell another person that their preferences are not OK?
OP: I don't understand the question. Women have preferences and men have preferences. They are individual choices. Who is anyone to tell another person that their preferences are not OK?
Thank you. Maybe he'll get it the way you phrased it
I personally want a girl that will actually enjoy the gym with me. Ive dated girls that "look" more fit than 95% of women out there, yet they do nothing. They're naturally like that.
I dont want a woman that complains when I go to the gym 4-5x a week or complains that I eat healthy and won't eat fast food or ice cream weekly.
Believe it or not this seems to be a problem for plenty of women. It's almost like they perceive it as a threat or something. If a girl tries to talk me out of going to the gym to stay home and watch a movie she will see the door fast. And yes, it has happened.
My gf has worked out with me all year. She had never worked out much till then except running. Now she loves the gym. Pushing herself. Coming up with new healthy recipes. Learning new exercises. She outworks me in the gym a lot of days. I'll rest and she'll start doing push ups or wall squats.
I think if many guys like working out theres nothing wrong with finding a woman with similar interests. Afterall thays a big part of the reason we choose our partner, right? Similar interests
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If they are telling you not to go to the gym, they are probably being a control freak (turnoff). It will extend to more than just the gym if you had given in. I ask someone in that situation: "And what will you be giving up?" Relationships are a two way street. Either mutual sacrifice or accept each other. It's great that the new woman and you have similar interests and definitely nothing wrong with it if it works for you.
He's right and wants a "fit bird" like any straight man and wants to look good to market himself as sexy. Stay fit and don't lose your hair and you can get any number of hot girls. That is good advice but is the perfect example of "easier said than done".
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