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After wading through all the unnecessary details I am still trying to figure out what exactly is the issue.
It appears you don't know what you want and you think a relationship is a game and he is possibly a mind reader since
he should know that you have been wanting him to make a physical "move" on you.
I'm lost at the "sexless relationship" comment that you did not include so there is nothing that ties that statement into the story.
I'm beginning to think you're not a real account. Your posts are so very beyond the possibility of reasonable interactions for adults.
Hmm.... OK. I'm a real account, sadly. Just very awkward with dating. And my "relationship" with this guy is a bit weird. We're friends but more if that makes sense. Sometimes I talk to him and treat him as a friend, more than I probably should.
After wading through all the unnecessary details I am still trying to figure out what exactly is the issue.
It appears you don't know what you want and you think a relationship is a game and he is possibly a mind reader since
he should know that you have been wanting him to make a physical "move" on you.
I'm lost at the "sexless relationship" comment that you did not include so there is nothing that ties that statement into the story.
What ties it to the story, is that after I had told him I had only been with one guy and my views on sex he came to the conclusion that I wanted a sexless relationship and said " so basically you want a sexless relationship". And I didn't tell him "no or yes", that is what that comment at the end meant(about me wanting not wanting a sexless relationship".
After wading through all the unnecessary details I am still trying to figure out what exactly is the issue.
It appears you don't know what you want and you think a relationship is a game and he is possibly a mind reader since
he should know that you have been wanting him to make a physical "move" on you.
I'm lost at the "sexless relationship" comment that you did not include so there is nothing that ties that statement into the story.
Haha I do know what I want, I guess I just play too many games, or do so many awkward things that I probably confuse him(and most guys I date). Just wanted to confirm if I'm sending mixed signals. And apparently I am. Now I just need to figure out how to stop and be more mature and do less game playing.
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Haha I do know what I want, I guess I just play too many games, or do so many awkward things that I probably confuse him(and most guys I date). Just wanted to confirm if I'm sending mixed signals. And apparently I am. Now I just need to figure out how to stop and be more mature and do less game playing.
Easy. Seduce him. THen you'd be beyond the game. And yes, it sounds like you're a huge game playing tease.
But from earlier posts and suggestions from other women here (never mind men) it seemed pretty universal that you should be dealing with internal issues, including your last long term relationship, before you try to date. Too bad you don't seem to want to do that.
Easy. Seduce him. THen you'd be beyond the game. And yes, it sounds like you're a huge game playing tease.
But from earlier posts and suggestions from other women here (never mind men) it seemed pretty universal that you should be dealing with internal issues, including your last long term relationship, before you try to date. Too bad you don't seem to want to do that.
I like him. So I want to date him. If it fails I'll seek help.
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I thought you were dating him? Very confusing. I don't think the therapy advice was about helping you with dating, but it was about getting you in a good place mentally/emotionally. Anyway, good luck.
I thought you were dating him? Very confusing. Anyway, good luck.
You said that people had advised me that I shouldn't date until I work on my issues. All I was saying is that it's understood that it would be best that I work on these issues, but I want to continue dating him so at this point that is what I'm doing. I like him. I want to date him. I want to see where it goes.
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