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Old 12-26-2013, 05:07 PM
 
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Wow, so where you come from there is never divorce. I thought that occurred in all 50 states.
In the OP ""baby mama"" was defined as a woman who has never been married before. Obviously its acceptable for a divorced woman with 4 kids to date but a woman who had 4 kids out of wedlock heck even 1kid out of wedlock missed the boat and she should just give up on dating.In this particular case, she blew 4 chances, time to face the music and live her life all by herself, no more dating. Its too late! But hey, keep egging her on just so her fertile womb ends up bearing OP´s fifth kid. After all when that happens CD folk will buy diapers! Mark my words, she will be a baby mama of 5 after said poster ///// in her!

I was not talking about an ``exwife`` but about a ``babymama`` big difference.

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Old 12-26-2013, 05:18 PM
 
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I don't understand how a woman with four young kids even has time to ""date"". But hey if you lay with flies you will catch fleas. She tried to date with 4 young kids & landed a loser like OP. Why are you defensive? Are you a baby mama as well?
I'm not defensive...just never heard of someone neglecting their children to date.

Oh, and it's "if you lay with DOGS, not flies" LMAO

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You do know that there is usually (not saying in this case) an ex husband that takes the kids half the time, right?
Apparently she doesn't!

Most people I know share custody of their children and get every other week free, or at bare minimum, every weekend. I'm not sure what she expects they do? Stare at pictures of their kids??
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Old 12-26-2013, 05:24 PM
 
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"Why do I get the feeling you are always dogging me in every thread= angrymillionaire"

Sorry, when you leave a comment like this in a rep I can't respond. I'm not dogging you in every thread. I just happen to post in 2 threads that you did today and comment on them.
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Old 12-26-2013, 05:26 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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In the OP ""baby mama"" was defined as a woman who has never been married before. Obviously its acceptable for a divorced woman with 4 kids to date but a woman who had 4 kids out of wedlock heck even 1kid out of wedlock missed the boat and she should just give up on dating.In this particular case, she blew 4 chances, time to face the music and live her life all by herself, no more dating. Its too late! But hey, keep egging her on just so her fertile womb ends up bearing OP´s fifth kid. After all when that happens CD folk will buy diapers! Mark my words, she will be a baby mama of 5 after said poster ///// in her!

I was not talking about an ``exwife`` but about a ``babymama`` big difference.
Even in that case the father would often be taking the kids.

Not everyone feels they need to get married to have a family, though it does make things simpler legally I would suspect.
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Old 12-26-2013, 05:39 PM
 
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Even in that case the father would often be taking the kids.

Not everyone feels they need to get married to have a family, though it does make things simpler legally I would suspect.
Ok then, my bad! In the meantime I am a social abomination for not expecting/accepting out of wedlock babies. My bad I apologise! Meanwhile CD male fonts, please go ahead & knock up a woman who already has 4 kids out of wedlock, heck so she can have 5 OOW kids! its the decent thing to do!

And after apologizing because I realised how out of line I was, I will go on with my life! I hope you accept my apology. Meantime I was wrong, apologized & now I'm out I hope you are happy.
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Old 12-26-2013, 05:42 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I don't plan on "knocking up" with anyone myself, but each their own.

But being born "out of wedlock" isn't a big deal now except in more conservative parts of the country, perhaps, or with certain religious people.
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Old 12-26-2013, 05:56 PM
 
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I don't plan on "knocking up" with anyone myself, but each their own.

But being born "out of wedlock" isn't a big deal now except in more conservative parts of the country, perhaps, or with certain religious people.
OOW babies say a lot about their parents, that is pleasure seeking people with no morals whatsoever! When a woman lets a man n** on her with no ring on her finger, that makes the scum of the earth! Think I'm kidding? Check the holy bible as well as other religious books.

Again 4 kids before a marriage is backwards its supposed to be dating, marriage, 4 kids then grand kids!
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Old 12-26-2013, 06:14 PM
 
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OOW babies say a lot about their parents, that is pleasure seeking people with no morals whatsoever! When a woman lets a man n** on her with no ring on her finger, that makes the scum of the earth! Think I'm kidding? Check the holy bible as well as other religious books.

Again 4 kids before a marriage is backwards its supposed to be dating, marriage, 4 kids then grand kids!
Please get off the soapbox. The woman who posted about wearing ragged underwear to keep her from showing them to a prospective boss has no place to wag fingers.
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Old 02-23-2014, 03:14 PM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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I did and I will tell you it was a mistake!!!

A lot of drama!!!

Nobody childless should marry into that junk!

I am dating a single mom of 4 kids. I told her that I wouldn't marry someone who has 4 kids who are not mine. But there were many people online who were upset, although I was honest and told her that I didn't want to marry someone who has 4 kids from someone else. The responses I received online made me feel guilty about all this.

If you don't mind me asking, why did you marry the person you were with? Why did you feel it was a mistake? Did you feel like you owed it to her to marry her since you dated her for a long time?
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Old 02-23-2014, 04:40 PM
 
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I am dating a single mom of 4 kids. I told her that I wouldn't marry someone who has 4 kids who are not mine. But there were many people online who were upset, although I was honest and told her that I didn't want to marry someone who has 4 kids from someone else. The responses I received online made me feel guilty about all this.

If you don't mind me asking, why did you marry the person you were with? Why did you feel it was a mistake? Did you feel like you owed it to her to marry her since you dated her for a long time?
She was young when she had him. She was working and going to school. Everything appeared as if she was on the right track. Wow was I wrong!

Daddy did everything for her and raised her son while she, at present, still believes the idea that she did it alone. Lol!

Plus, you will be put out of the picture. You are #5. If you try to be a Dad she will side with the kids AND the kids will turn on you.

I don't think you are seeing what is in the storm over the horizon.
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