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Why do you have to be "in demand"? You don't have to be desired by everyone in order to be desired by the right person.
Where did i say to be desired by everyone? stop using extremes..the more people attracted to you the more chances you have in findng the right one because usually the first person you go o na date or even go out with isnt usually the one so it easier for people who are attractive to at least a decent amount of the opposite sex then somebody who has a hard time finding a first date..
Okay... let me get this straight... you want people to look past things that people could remedy for something that cannot be remedied?
For example: Fat? you can diet. Not too bright? you can go to school. (obviously, we aren't talking about a mental handicap here, just someone who isn't too smart).
Stick with me...
Short? Nope. You can't fix that.
I am always amazed at how many (not all, thank goodness) short dudes (who I have no issue with and I have dated shorter guys in the past) roll in here talking about how fat people are gross and disgusting (not all heavy people are unattractive or slovenly) and how people who aren't smart are beneath them somehow... beneath! I made a pun.
That thing about the short man complex is legitimate, y'all.
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Where did i say to be desired by everyone? stop using extremes..the more people attracted to you the more chances you have in findng the right one because usually the first person you go o na date or even go out with isnt usually the one so it easier for people who are attractive to at least a decent amount of the opposite sex then somebody who has a hard time finding a first date..
Define: The right one
Thing is... even if your dating pool is a pool of 5, there's one in there that'll do.
It's not settling. It's being REALISTIC.
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Thing is... even if your dating pool is a pool of 5, there's one in there that'll do.
It's not settling. It's being REALISTIC.
My datign pools zero but aside from me i only brought up the phrase "the one" because i was responding to a poster who said its not about attractng alot of women its about attractign the right one and my point is for struggling guys who have a hard time getting dates its harder to find "the right one" then people who attract the oppoite sex easily and have more potential suitors who could eventually be the one
My datign pools zero but aside from me i only brought up the phrase "the one" because i was responding to a poster who said its not about attractng alot of women its about attractign the right one and my point is for struggling guys who have a hard time getting dates its harder to find "the right one" then people who attract the oppoite sex easily and have more potential suitors who could eventually be the one
Hmm... yes, but sometimes having too many choices is really confusing, too.
I agree that you need to have at least a few people in your dating pool, but beyond that, you don't need hundreds of women to choose from to find a decent girl who will love you and who you can love in return.
If this was true, the human race would have died out centuries ago.
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Hmm... yes, but sometimes having too many choices is really confusing, too.
I agree that you need to have at least a few people in your dating pool, but beyond that, you don't need hundreds of women to choose from to find a decent girl who will love you and who you can love in return.
If this was true, the human race would have died out centuries ago.
Nah im tired of constant rejection it really isnt fun..
No. Rejection sucks.
Let's figure out why you're getting rejected.
No problem isn't fixable.
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