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I'm 27 years old dating a girl for little less than a year who is almost 30 and she is an amazing girl but like most girls who are 30 years old and single have to have something in their closet. So the main thing that bothers me is not so much all the guys she has dated/slept with but one guy in particular. This guy is a famous MMA fighter I won't drop any names now but at the time she was 21/22 and he was 37! This guy used to give my GF drugs and party and have a lot of sex with her. I have even gone as
Far as looking this stuff up online and sure enough i found pics of them partying and kissing. Things like this never bothered me before but now this girl who I'm in love with has this past and it really really bothers me and I don't know what to do? I talk to her about it
But she doesn't like to keep talking about it
Because she is disappointed and can't change it. Am I being totally un realistic about all this?
I'm 27 years old dating a girl for little less than a year who is almost 30 and she is an amazing girl but like most girls who are 30 years old and single have to have something in their closet. So the main thing that bothers me is not so much all the guys she has dated/slept with but one guy in particular. This guy is a famous MMA fighter I won't drop any names now but at the time she was 21/22 and he was 37! This guy used to give my GF drugs and party and have a lot of sex with her. I have even gone as
Far as looking this stuff up online and sure enough i found pics of them partying and kissing. Things like this never bothered me before but now this girl who I'm in love with has this past and it really really bothers me and I don't know what to do? I talk to her about it
But she doesn't like to keep talking about it
Because she is disappointed and can't change it. Am I being totally un realistic about all this?
Do her a favor and let her go. You are too insecure to be in a relationship with a non-virgin.
If you are truly in love with someone, you have to realize there are things about that person you may not like. Which leaves you a choice of moving forward with that person or moving on from them. We can't make that choice for you, but I do think it is in her best interest if you move on.
She was 21/22 and fuc king a famous MMA fighter, what's wrong with a girl being young and stupid? We were all young and stupid, would you not have partied/banged a hot famous female athlete when you were 21/22? I know I sure as hell would, and I'd love every second of it.
If it bothers you too much I'd say to stay sane and healthy to find a good Christian house wife...those are usually boring.
I think this depends on how the OP is really like. If he is really like me that's a ''sex in a relationship'' only type and has never had a wild past before than getting over it and compromising would be nearly impossible. Technically I'm off course a non-virgin woman but never had a past like the OP's gf.
If the OP had a wild past before then in that case he has nothing to complain about.
I'm 27 years old dating a girl for little less than a year who is almost 30 and she is an amazing girl but like most girls who are 30 years old and single have to have something in their closet. So the main thing that bothers me is not so much all the guys she has dated/slept with but one guy in particular. This guy is a famous MMA fighter I won't drop any names now but at the time she was 21/22 and he was 37! This guy used to give my GF drugs and party and have a lot of sex with her. I have even gone as
Far as looking this stuff up online and sure enough i found pics of them partying and kissing. Things like this never bothered me before but now this girl who I'm in love with has this past and it really really bothers me and I don't know what to do? I talk to her about it
But she doesn't like to keep talking about it
Because she is disappointed and can't change it. Am I being totally un realistic about all this?
Dump her immediately.
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