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Old 01-01-2014, 07:22 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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Thanks for the feedback I think
I forgot to mention that I found out by just stumbling upon pictures cuz she hid it from me, but I'm just venting here I'm gonna get over it, it's just fresh so it stung a little I'm not gonna
Dump her.
HAHAHA Who's on first?

 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:22 PM
 
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Just randomly on her computer while she was there showing me stuff on it, and I'm no angel but I don't have that crazy of a past and it's not everyday you stumble across a
Pic of your gf straddling someone famous that you see on tv and movies all the time.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:24 PM
 
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Just randomly on her computer while she was there showing me stuff on it, and I'm no angel but I don't have that crazy of a past and it's not everyday you stumble across a
Pic of your gf straddling someone famous that you see on tv and movies all the time.
Sounds like you were turned on by this.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Sounds like you were turned on by this.
Uh oh, not another cuckold thread!
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No, it's just that he now has a visual he can't get rid of.

If he had only HEARD about their dating, it would not be that big a deal. But SEEING with his own eyes her being sexual with this guy ...

Now it's just replaying over and over in his mind.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:36 PM
 
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Every time I see a thread like this I always wonder if they are secretly trying to find any excuse to dump them. If so, just go ahead and do it.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Honestly, you have two choices. You either get over it or get over her. I mean really, who cares?

UNLESS what is REALLY eating you is your insecurity of this MMA Fighter who is more built, rich and famous than you and who had lots of drugged out sex with your current gf?
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:43 PM
 
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She was showing you stuff on her computer and happened to pull up a photo of her and this famous guy having sex? Did you ask her who took the photo?

This OP gets more and more fishy.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I'm 27 years old dating a girl for little less than a year who is almost 30 and she is an amazing girl but like most girls who are 30 years old and single have to have something in their closet. So the main thing that bothers me is not so much all the guys she has dated/slept with but one guy in particular. This guy is a famous MMA fighter I won't drop any names now but at the time she was 21/22 and he was 37! This guy used to give my GF drugs and party and have a lot of sex with her. I have even gone as
Far as looking this stuff up online and sure enough i found pics of them partying and kissing. Things like this never bothered me before but now this girl who I'm in love with has this past and it really really bothers me and I don't know what to do? I talk to her about it
But she doesn't like to keep talking about it
Because she is disappointed and can't change it. Am I being totally un realistic about all this?
Your insecurity is not just extreme, but pathological. Honestly, you ought to seek help with that before you get into a relationship.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 07:57 PM
 
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I don't think so...
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Your insecurity is not just extreme, but pathological. Honestly, you ought to seek help with that before you get into a relationship.
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
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