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Originally Posted by Eagle4Life
Uh no. Way too many assumptions being made. Family had no part in buying this home. It is hers and hers only. Not inherited. I do not squat, I pay my fair share. Sister pays almost zero and parents do not help pay for it.
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I didn't even realize this thread was still alive... what do you mean 'assumptions'? You leave important details of your situation out and then talk about 'assumptions'. Your fair share... I suppose you arrive at that assumption by figuring that each of you are in for 1/3... actually, your fair share of the mortgage is zero. Its not your house (nor is it ever likely to be) and the equity that results in your cash contribution being applied to the principal of the mortgage will never be collected... by you. Been there, done that. I've helped two women pay their mortgages with nothing to show for it. Not even fond memories. Doesn't sound like you're having a lot of fun either. I mean... ... you know what I mean. Unless sis is deaf, there just isn't much boom boom going on at home. Or am I assuming too much.
My father would already have paid bad men to beat you very close to death for not marrying his daughter already. Personally I think you have good reasons to hesitate. But hesitate on your own time, in your own space. It sends the wrong message all around the way you are doing it. FWIW.
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