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Old 01-10-2014, 04:26 PM
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Gentlemen, I have a general rule when it comes to keeping the fling going. I have a two date rule, if after the second date she does not initiate any type of date or hangout/get together herself with me then I generally move on. I like girls that know how to take control and girls that are into me for me. What do you do after you take girls out and they do not return the favor?
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If I did that if I was a male, I'd get less dates. Lol

As a female I don't do flings and you would scream, cheap cheap cheap.
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:19 PM
 
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Gentlemen, ...

... What do you do after you take girls out and they do not return the favor?
Gentlemen do not have this silly rule.

[quid quo pro is no go ]
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:25 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Gentlemen do not have this silly rule.

[quid quo pro is no go ]
Lets turn the tables.

What would a woman do?

Let me take a guess keep play'n the fool?
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:29 PM
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. What do you do after you take girls out and they do not return the favor?
I cry...mostly..
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Lets turn the tables.

What would a woman do?

Let me take a guess keep play'n the fool?
No not at all once the dates go serious, then you discuss going dutch.
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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No not at all once the dates go serious, then you discuss going dutch.
Im not sure if we're talking about paying for the dates, Rae, But what if you were the only one initiating the first 2-3 dates? wouldn't you think he wasn't into you? would you move on?

Personally, I give it 3 dates. And never mind cost; I have no problem paying for all the dates.
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:43 PM
 
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Lets turn the tables.

What would a woman do?

Let me take a guess keep play'n the fool?
Ask them.

[relationships are not a math equation...]
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:53 PM
 
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Im not sure if we're talking about paying for the dates, Rae, But what if you were the only one initiating the first 2-3 dates? wouldn't you think he wasn't into you? would you move on?

Personally, I give it 3 dates. And never mind cost; I have no problem paying for all the dates.
Hmmmm let me think back.....yes I picked the place many times. And many picked the place for the date.

And no Hawaiian! The fact they still agree to go on the dates is that they are interested. If they don't communicate inbetween that says they were only for a free meal.
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Old 01-10-2014, 05:56 PM
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Im not sure if we're talking about paying for the dates, Rae, But what if you were the only one initiating the first 2-3 dates? wouldn't you think he wasn't into you? would you move on?

Personally, I give it 3 dates. And never mind cost; I have no problem paying for all the dates.
Pretty much my position on the matter. Of course there will be times when I add an exception, but that is rare. I've dated too many women to have it any other way. It's just the way I operate.

Thanks for the feed back.
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