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Old 05-03-2014, 07:37 PM
 
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That was the noise I heard in your room......

What were you doing listening in on his room? Are you with NSA?
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Old 05-03-2014, 10:49 PM
 
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What were you doing listening in on his room? Are you with NSA?
He invited me over and said brb.
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Old 05-05-2014, 07:02 PM
 
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He invited me over and said brb.

Oh okay, did you have a good time?
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Old 05-05-2014, 07:43 PM
 
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I've always read it's about 1/3 of women, around 35%. That's still a lot of women.
Which is why I said that 86% is simply not true. As it stands, I took bigger issue with the statement, "Studies show that women say 'yes' to casual sex with a stranger just as often as men, if they have reason to think the person will be decent in bed." anyway.
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Old 05-05-2014, 07:47 PM
 
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Which is why I said that 86% is simply not true. As it stands, I took bigger issue with the statement, "Studies show that women say 'yes' to casual sex with a stranger just as often as men, if they have reason to think the person will be decent in bed." anyway.
I find the part you bolded to be perfectly plausible. Women are reluctant to have casual sex in large part because there's no guarantee they'd only be used as a sex doll and dumped. There's also the matter of STD risk. But if women knew the sex would be satisfying, more women would go for casual sex. That's kind of a no-brainer.
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Old 05-05-2014, 07:54 PM
 
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I find the part you bolded to be perfectly plausible. Women are reluctant to have casual sex in large part because there's no guarantee they'd only be used as a sex doll and dumped. There's also the matter of STD risk. But if women knew the sex would be satisfying, more women would go for casual sex. That's kind of a no-brainer.
I don't remember any more, but I think the bolding was hers, not mine. Either way, of course the number would go up, but it wouldn't come close to the men's number. STD risks go both ways, as does getting dumped (though I don't see how relevant that is to practitioners of casual sex).

Most of the women that you ask that describe why they aren't interested in casual sex indicate that they want something "more", a connection, the aspects of a relationship that casual sex doesn't offer. While I don't doubt that sexual satisfaction is a factor, it pales in comparison to the aforementioned.
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Old 05-05-2014, 07:56 PM
 
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I don't remember any more, but I think the bolding was hers, not mine. Either way, of course the number would go up, but it wouldn't come close to the men's number. STD risks go both ways, as does getting dumped (though I don't see how relevant that is to practitioners of casual sex).
Getting dumped before getting their "O", is the point. Wham-bam-thankyou-ma'am has never gone over well with the ladies.
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Old 05-05-2014, 08:46 PM
 
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Oh okay, did you have a good time?
Not good as he had!
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Old 05-05-2014, 09:54 PM
 
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Getting dumped before getting their "O", is the point. Wham-bam-thankyou-ma'am has never gone over well with the ladies.
It still wouldn't come close to men.
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Old 05-05-2014, 10:33 PM
 
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Which is why I said that 86% is simply not true. As it stands, I took bigger issue with the statement, "Studies show that women say 'yes' to casual sex with a stranger just as often as men, if they have reason to think the person will be decent in bed." anyway.

I am still trying to wrap my mind around the concept of how a woman can think a stranger will be decent in bed, other than by conflating 'hot' and 'decent in bed'.
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