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Old 02-13-2014, 04:02 PM
 
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For me, I'd say that most of my life is based around trying to be more attractive to women.

I want a good career because I want women to view me as smart and successful.

I want to break 4 minutes in the mile because it's an accomplishment that my future s.o. could brag about to her friends.

I sit in the sauna every day because it gives me good skin, which makes me more sexually attractive to women.

I wear nice clothes because they make me look better to women. Otherwise I would sweat pants every day, becuase they're far more comfortable.

if women didn't exist, I would be far less motivated in life. I'd be perfectly content if I made $45k/yr, since I don't have any expensive hobbies. The only reason I want to make 6 figures or more is because it would give me more dating options and thus ultimately lead to a happier life.
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:04 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I wish more guys would think like you.

The guys I know mostly don't give a damn and then wonder why they don't get laid.

Or they care a little bit until they have a gf and then give up trying.
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:13 PM
 
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I used to care. I don't care much anymore, I learned that it hasn't really been worth my time to care.

I do things because I choose to do them. No outside source forces me into making decisions because they are not going to do me any favors.

I suppose some people may not like the post, but honestly, it's what life has taught me up to this point.
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:16 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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For me, I'd say that most of my life is based around trying to be more attractive to women.

I want a good career because I want women to view me as smart and successful.

I want to break 4 minutes in the mile because it's an accomplishment that my future s.o. could brag about to her friends.

I sit in the sauna every day because it gives me good skin, which makes me more sexually attractive to women.

I wear nice clothes because they make me look better to women. Otherwise I would sweat pants every day, becuase they're far more comfortable.

if women didn't exist, I would be far less motivated in life. I'd be perfectly content if I made $45k/yr, since I don't have any expensive hobbies. The only reason I want to make 6 figures or more is because it would give me more dating options and thus ultimately lead to a happier life.
Just don't go too much overboard, keep it in perspective and don't make your life miserable through extreme pressure.

How old are you?
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:16 PM
 
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I wish more guys would think like you.
well, a lot of guys mistakenly believe that the "confidence" and "conversational skills" are most important for attracting women. They disregard their looks becuase they're told that women don't care about looks. Haven't you heard? The pop psychologists have proved that men can bed women by exuding certain tones of voice that subconsciously arouse women.
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:18 PM
 
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how old are you?
24
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:20 PM
 
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Is alcoholism part of your charm?

//www.city-data.com/forum/psych...l#post33449968
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:21 PM
 
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Is alcoholism part of your charm?

//www.city-data.com/forum/psych...l#post33449968

I don't drink alcoholically anymore
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Is alcoholism part of your charm?

//www.city-data.com/forum/psych...l#post33449968
Yeah I saw that.
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:22 PM
 
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I used to care. I don't care much anymore, I learned that it hasn't really been worth my time to care.

I do things because I choose to do them. No outside source forces me into making decisions because they are not going to do me any favors.

I suppose some people may not like the post, but honestly, it's what life has taught me up to this point.
This.

This is one lesson I've learned too in my younger years. People tend to have little respect for you when you are doing things just to impress them. They can tell you're being fake and insincere in your intentions. In fact this is the only regret I have in my entire life. If your going to do something, make sure it's because you want to do it and not a means to an end to make others like you.
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