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In some types of relationships, trust can be rebuilt, depending on the breach. But cheating in a romantic relationship? Nah. Not for me. That level of dishonesty and disloyalty indicates major character flaws.
I agree about the character flaw -- it will stay with the individual the rest of his or her life.
A breach of trust hurts, there's no denying that. But it's not the end of the world. Humans make poor decisions sometimes. "Mistake" is not just an excuse. It's a human characteristic. Trust can be rebuilt.
It's not just trust.
It's about somebody totally disregarding you to selfishly pursue their wanton desires, or doing something to completely spite or get back at you.
Whether or not I choose to forgive that person in my own mind is really my business, too. It's not like the person would ever have any way of knowing, one way or another, whether or not I've forgiven him. If I were to forgive, it would be for myself, anyway, not for the benefit of the person who lied.
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