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Old 02-23-2014, 11:15 PM
 
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In some types of relationships, trust can be rebuilt, depending on the breach. But cheating in a romantic relationship? Nah. Not for me. That level of dishonesty and disloyalty indicates major character flaws.
I agree about the character flaw -- it will stay with the individual the rest of his or her life.
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:16 PM
 
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Only if I didn't give a crap about him and was just using him for money, kids or image.
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:17 PM
 
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A breach of trust hurts, there's no denying that. But it's not the end of the world. Humans make poor decisions sometimes. "Mistake" is not just an excuse. It's a human characteristic. Trust can be rebuilt.
It's not just trust.

It's about somebody totally disregarding you to selfishly pursue their wanton desires, or doing something to completely spite or get back at you.

Maybe when I was younger, but not now.
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Whether or not I choose to forgive that person in my own mind is really my business, too. It's not like the person would ever have any way of knowing, one way or another, whether or not I've forgiven him. If I were to forgive, it would be for myself, anyway, not for the benefit of the person who lied.
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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....could you forgive them? Under what circumstances could it be forgivable, for you?
I wouldn't forgive a woman who cheated on me.
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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No way. No how. Just ask my ex wife!
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:49 PM
 
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I could forgive her on the basis she is a human being and we make mistakes.
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.
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Old 02-23-2014, 11:54 PM
 
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If a guy cheated on me and didn't tell me before we had sex again, I would super glue his morning woody to his stomach before I left his sorry ass..
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Old 02-24-2014, 12:42 AM
 
Location: Central Bay Area, CA as of Jan 2010...but still a proud Texan from Houston!
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That would be the end for me!
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Old 02-24-2014, 02:38 AM
 
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Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.
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