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Alright, it seems to be that this clear as mud boils down to:
1.You cannot get her to orgasm during sex
2. She is having some technical issues (IUD problems, leg pain, stomach pain)
3. You are taking it personally instead of problem-solving *with* her
My suggested solutions:
1. Ask her to bring herself to orgasm while you cuddle her. She can show you what works. Then later she can teach you. (You both know that most women never orgasm from intercourse, right? That's like a man orgasming from having his balls fondled. It's very indirect stimulation.)
2. She needs to see her doc. Sex should never hurt, if she is aroused. (Your 'just the tip' comment makes me wonder, though -- is she fully aroused and close to orgasm *before* intercourse, every time?)
3. You need to think of yourself as on the same team as her, and the two of you need to work together to creates a sex life that you *both* love. Make it a project, a hobby. Don't expect it to just magically happen like porn.
Ok thanks for the advice. I have gotten her to go from just penetration twice in 6 months. She said it is very rarely she goes from just penetration and that sex feels different after she's had three kids
Ok thanks for the advice. I have gotten her to go from just penetration twice in 6 months. She said it is very rarely she goes from just penetration and that sex feels different after she's had three kids
Ok thanks for the advice. I have gotten her to go from just penetration twice in 6 months. She said it is very rarely she goes from just penetration and that sex feels different after she's had three kids
Original poster: You need to understand that women do not always climax when having sex, sometimes they do other times they don't.
It appears she has some discomfort issues as well as physical "feeling" issues (ie: does not feel the same after 3 kids).
She perhaps needs to go and see her gynecologist and have the fit of the IUD checked since she says sometimes it hurts.
She also needs to drink more water for the leg cramps, the stomach issues are probably anxiety from your mood after sex.
You need to deal with your after sex mood and get over the fact that she does not climax "every" time you have sex however, it is tough to get anything to go from start to finish when there appears to be no full penetration.
Both of you need to learn how to have open, honest communication regarding sex and pretty much everything in your relationship. Until you can discuss issues without it turning into an argument and finding a solution that makes you both happy your relationship will not be successful.
Everything I wrote only applies IF this is what you are trying to say by not saying anything that makes any real sense.
Oh, boy. You are aware that for a not insignificant number of women, orgasm DOES NOT HAPPEN with internal stimulation alone, correct? It's weird to me that this is not common knowledge.
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