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I just read a thread where some woman talked about her respected boundaries, and how cussing on here first date shows a lack of confidence. How come women notice weird things. When I see a woman I like, I notice her looks and body. Not how confident she is or if she is respectful of my boundaries. In fact, in any interaction with any human bring, type only time I think about respect is when I'm meeting someone much older than me. And as far as boundaries, I don't even know what that means! Women claim to want sex as much as men or be as horny but this is horse**** because if they were they would be dumbfounded if someone mentioned respect and boundaries.
I just read a thread where some woman talked about her respected boundaries, and how cussing on here first date shows a lack of confidence. How come women notice weird things. When I see a woman I like, I notice her looks and body. Not how confident she is or if she is respectful of my boundaries. In fact, in any interaction with any human bring, type only time I think about respect is when I'm meeting someone much older than me. And as far as boundaries, I don't even know what that means! Women claim to want sex as much as men or be as horny but this is horse**** because if they were they would be dumbfounded if someone mentioned respect and boundaries.
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You really don't understand anything about women.
Women looking to get laid don't really care about boundaries or respecting them.
Women looking for relationships care about these things. Men who are looking for more than sex care about these things, too.
You are confusing sex and relationships. You are a horny teenager, man.
That's pretty much all there is to it.
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I'm not sure from your original post if you understand what women mean by respecting their boundaries, but I don't want to talk down to you. Good rant by the way! Would you like to understand what they mean or did you just want to blow off some steam?
I notice confidence in a woman. Confidence means she gives out positive energy, and that's attractive. The wallflower types generally don't attract anyone's attention.
Dudes don't care about respect for boundaries because we don't need to worry much about women going way out of bounds. But women experience that a lot from dudes, so it's an issue for them. Have you ever had some kind of crazy chick after you, stalking you around by FB, phone, email, cruising by your place? That's one type of boundary issue. It rarely happens to men, so we don't think about it.
Cussing on a first date shows a lack of manners. If that's you putting your best foot forward on a date, I shudder to see what you're like when you're more relaxed. Respectfulness carries you a long way in life.
I just read a thread where some woman talked about her respected boundaries, and how cussing on here first date shows a lack of confidence. How come women notice weird things. When I see a woman I like, I notice her looks and body. Not how confident she is or if she is respectful of my boundaries. In fact, in any interaction with any human bring, type only time I think about respect is when I'm meeting someone much older than me. And as far as boundaries, I don't even know what that means! Women claim to want sex as much as men or be as horny but this is horse**** because if they were they would be dumbfounded if someone mentioned respect and boundaries.
I just read a thread where some woman talked about her respected boundaries, and how cussing on here first date shows a lack of confidence. How come women notice weird things. When I see a woman I like, I notice her looks and body. Not how confident she is or if she is respectful of my boundaries. In fact, in any interaction with any human bring, type only time I think about respect is when I'm meeting someone much older than me. And as far as boundaries, I don't even know what that means! Women claim to want sex as much as men or be as horny but this is horse**** because if they were they would be dumbfounded if someone mentioned respect and boundaries.
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Speak for yourself. I must have been raised differently because in my world, respect and confidence is very important.
In the OPs defense, he is from California. Do you really blame him for being out of touch with reality?
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