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Why? You hate dating, don't like women, and have no desire for a gf. What was your intent?
And no, it isn't normal... anything about what you're doing or saying.
Yes, I am wondering why someone who dislikes women and sex would want to waste his time like that. What exactly do you plan to do on this "date"? I hope you can at least be honest with her about your lack of intentions.
Getting a yes gives you confidence getting nothing but no's gives you hurt and lack of self esteem and confidence with the opposite sex..
You should never place your value and self-worth in the hands of anyone else. A yes is a nice boost, a no might suck, but it shouldn't change who you are, or have you living on a roller-coaster of emotions based on whether or not you get what you want from others.
Yes, I am wondering why someone who dislikes women and sex would want to waste his time like that. What exactly do you plan to do on this "date"? I hope you can at least be honest with her about your lack of intentions.
I will go out with her and see if anything progresses after that.
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Originally Posted by Liberty2011
You should never place your value and self-worth in the hands of anyone else. A yes is a nice boost, a no might suck, but it shouldn't change who you are, or have you living on a roller-coaster of emotions based on whether or not you get what you want from others.
I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
Depends on how many you ask out....
If you only talked to 2 women all week long and both rejected you then you will feel pretty bad because 2 out of 2 turned you down.
BUT.....
If you talk to 20 women this week and all 20 reject you....when things are all said and done.....you can only say one thing......MAN I HAD A BUSY WEEK.
It is all about your mentality.
True confidence begins internally. Confidence BEGINS with a person knowing and believing that they have something valuable to offer another person.
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