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I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
To answer your post, no.. definitely not. A confident person doesn't give a crap about the people he asks out. So whether or not she says yes has no bearing.
If you only talked to 2 women all week long and both rejected you then you will feel pretty bad because 2 out of 2 turned you down.
BUT.....
If you talk to 20 women this week and all 20 reject you....when things are all said and done.....you can only say one thing......MAN I HAD A BUSY WEEK.
It is all about your mentality.
True confidence begins internally. Confidence BEGINS with a person knowing and believing that they have something valuable to offer another person.
I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
It only builds confidence if she says yes otherwise its a confidence killer now some people will tell you to get confident in different areas and it will carry over in dating. Take it from someone who knows it doesnt work that way.
To answer your post, no.. definitely not. A confident person doesn't give a crap about the people he asks out. So whether or not she says yes has no bearing.
I call bull he's confident because he has probably gotten a yes before not the same for someone who gets a bunch of nos.Show me a guy who fails at dating and is still confident and i'll show you a unicorn.
I call bull he's confident because he has probably gotten a yes before not the same for someone who gets a bunch of nos.Show me a guy who fails at dating and is still confident and i'll show you a unicorn.
No one can possibly NEVER have a girl want to go out with him. I call BS on that.
Also, a unicorn lair was discovered in North Korea. I'd rather not go there.
I do hope you will post all the details here afterwards.
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