Does asking women out give a man confidence? (dates, looking, Hawaii)

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

I did say these things. I was cynical about the dating world. I based it because a lot of people in my life had crappy experiences with dating.

And what do you think of your posts now?

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

And what do you think of your posts now?

I seem them for myself and it casts me as a woman hater. But I actually don't hate them.

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

I seem them for myself and it casts me as a woman hater. But I actually don't hate them.

There you go, OP. INSIGHT. You can change your attitude. Never say never.

Now is the chance to make a fresh start, but you must really try to be clear-eyed, open-hearted and self-aware to do so.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by zentropa

There you go, OP. INSIGHT. You can change your attitude. Never say never.

Now is the chance to make a fresh start, but you must really try to be clear-eyed, open-hearted and self-aware to do so.

I am in the process of doing that.

[doobalistic]

Originally Posted by srjth

If we're talking about in person, I have to go sit in a bar AND talk to the guy FIRST before a guy will hit on me where I live. Last time I was hit on in person here outside of a bar was 2010.

Or, maybe I'm just ugly.

Or maybe after countless rejections men said lets see if women want relationships enough to approach sadly most don't.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by doobalistic

Or maybe after countless rejections men said lets see if women want relationships enough to approach sadly most don't.

I have a date tonight. But I am contemplating canceling it.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

I have a date tonight. But I am contemplating canceling it.

Now why would you want to do that?

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

Now why would you want to do that?

Because I am nervous as hell. My anxiety around beautiful women is coming back.

[usamathman]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

Because I am nervous as hell. My anxiety around beautiful women is coming back.

Nervous about what.

The worst thing that can happen is you make an ass out of yourself and she doesn't want to go on another date.

What do you do then?? You move on to the next one.

Millions of other women out there.

Hell....send me her number if you decide to cancel.

No anxiety here. Plenty of things we can do.

[cpg35223]

Only if she says "Yes."