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Old 04-06-2014, 09:14 AM
 
Location: The Puget Sound
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27 View Post
Honestly, I wouldn't care. Women walk out on dates all the time, but when I do it all hell breaks loose!
That just makes you as bad as them.
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Old 04-06-2014, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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So because someone else walked out on a date before it makes it OK for you to do it too? Nice logic.

If a woman admitted to walking out on a date for the same reason you did she would receive just as much, if not more, scorn than you have.
If I am no longer interested, why stay? I really don't see what the big deal is. And no she wouldn't, the blame would go on me for "boring her."
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Old 04-06-2014, 09:22 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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That just makes you as bad as them.
How? Women get praise for this kind of stuff. But when a man does it he is a jerk and a bad person. And I'm the hypocrite... Smh whatever.
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Old 04-06-2014, 09:22 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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If I am no longer interested, why stay? I really don't see what the big deal is. And no she wouldn't, the blame would go on me.
You stay because it's the decent thing to do. You can explain to her that you don't want to date someone with kids and then decide from there if both of you want to continue the date.

But in the end, you did her a favor, even though you were incredibly rude and hurtful in doing so.
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Old 04-06-2014, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You stay because it's the decent thing to do. You can explain to her that you don't want to date someone with kids and then decide from there if both of you want to continue the date.

But in the end, you did her a favor, even though you were incredibly rude and hurtful in doing so.
I also did myself a favor by getting out of there. I will not continue a date if I see no future.
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Old 04-06-2014, 09:34 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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I also did myself a favor by getting out of there. I will not continue a date if I see no future.
You should probably let women know that before you go on dates with them. No one deserves that kind of treatment, especially for admitting something like having children.
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Old 04-06-2014, 10:14 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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If I am no longer interested, why stay? I really don't see what the big deal is. And no she wouldn't, the blame would go on me for "boring her."
Please stay away from women until you can get rid of the hatred and anger. Until you can treat others with a modicum of respect - you should refrain from interacting with them. She didn't "bore" you and she didn't do anything offensive. She shared with something about herself with you. Nobody would support a woman for walking out on a date for this same reason. And the fact that you fail to see what a complete jerk you were and that NOBODY would applaud a woman for doing the same thing makes me think that you either have some sort of social disorder, anger disorder, or you are simply not a good person.
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Old 04-06-2014, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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You would applaud her if she did it to me. Don't even get me started with the hypocrisy talk! If you think you and the others on here are going to push me around on here like other men you are mistaken.
No, I do not applaud poor behavior in anyone. If she did something bad to you I would tell you that she's messed up.

What you did is very wrong, just a flat out mean thing to do. Here's someone who was probably excited for the night, doesn't get out too often because she has a kid. Some guy finally asks her out, she says she has a kid and he just leaves her sitting there.

Honestly, it makes me kind of mad thinking about how terrible of behavior this is.

I'm not a woman, and it's not about being pushed around. The way you act is worse than a 5 year old with aspergers.
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Old 04-06-2014, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Please stay away from women until you can get rid of the hatred and anger. Until you can treat others with a modicum of respect - you should refrain from interacting with them. She didn't "bore" you and she didn't do anything offensive. She shared with something about herself with you. Nobody would support a woman for walking out on a date for this same reason. And the fact that you fail to see what a complete jerk you were and that NOBODY would applaud a woman for doing the same thing makes me think that you either have some sort of social disorder, anger disorder, or you are simply not a good person.
I don't hate anybody and I don't hate women. I do this one time and all of a sudden I am a woman hater. Nice logic...
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Old 04-06-2014, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I don't hate anybody and I don't hate women. I do this one time and all of a sudden I am a woman hater. Nice logic...
From all your posts. You even said that you sounded like a woman hater. Did you forget?

You are all over the place. You feel awful. You don't feel awful because you did nothing wrong. You have to apologize because you feel guilty. You don't feel like you did anything wrong and you would do it again?

What is wrong with you?
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