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No, I do not applaud poor behavior in anyone. If she did something bad to you I would tell you that she's messed up.
What you did is very wrong, just a flat out mean thing to do. Here's someone who was probably excited for the night, doesn't get out too often because she has a kid. Some guy finally asks her out, she says she has a kid and he just leaves her sitting there.
Honestly, it makes me kind of mad thinking about how terrible of behavior this is.
I'm not a woman, and it's not about being pushed around. The way you act is worse than a 5 year old with aspergers.
I don't think I did anything wrong. I was going to apologize to her but I didn't do anything bad so I won't apologize. People walk out on dates all the time but it I get attacked when I do it. She will live..
I don't think I did anything wrong. I was going to apologize to her but I didn't do anything bad so I won't apologize. People walk out on dates all the time but it I get attacked when I do it. She will live..
It's true. She was a nice woman. The kid thing however was a dealbreaker. Maybe I was an ass for what I did, but she can find a man who do for what I can't do.
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Once she said she had kid, I dont why but I freaked out. I felt like I had to leave. So I did it. Now I'm feeling bad.
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I am going to text her and apologize.
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If she does tell me that, I deserve it. But If I don't apologize, I'll continue to feel guilty. Then I can move on.
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You would applaud her if she did it to me. Don't even get me started with the hypocrisy talk! If you think you and the others on here are going to push me around on here like other men you are mistaken.
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Honestly, I wouldn't care. Women walk out on dates all the time, but when I do it all hell breaks loose!
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If I am no longer interested, why stay? I really don't see what the big deal is. And no she wouldn't, the blame would go on me for "boring her."
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How? Women get praise for this kind of stuff. But when a man does it he is a jerk and a bad person. And I'm the hypocrite... Smh whatever.
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I also did myself a favor by getting out of there. I will not continue a date if I see no future.
So because someone else walked out on a date before it makes it OK for you to do it too? Nice logic.
If a woman admitted to walking out on a date for the same reason you did she would receive just as much, if not more, scorn than you have.
I'm not going to get into the details of what's ok/what's not ok....obviously everyone is entitled to do what they feel is right and to suffer the consequences (societal or otherwise) afterwards. But the underlined is simply not true; we even had a thread recently that was specifically about it.
Edit: Trying to find the thread. Something like "what would make you walk out on a date"? or something involving dealbreakers?
If I am no longer interested, why stay? I really don't see what the big deal is.
Have you heard of courtesy? Manners? Consideration for another's feelings? Do you truly believe it's normal behavior to walk out on a date in the middle of dinner?
Women only walk out of the guy starts with sex talk, or drools on her boobs, or something. Otherwise, women tend to be overly polite and tolerant. They'll sit through an entire date with a guy who talks non-stop and doesn't let them get a word in edgewise, much less show any actual interest in them. They don't get up and walk out just because the guy's a self-absorbed windbag, or because he reveals he has a kid at home.
I'm not going to get into the details of what's ok/what's not ok....obviously everyone is entitled to do what they feel is right and to suffer the consequences (societal or otherwise) afterwards. But the underlined is simply not true; we even had a thread recently that was specifically about it.
A woman walking out on a date for being a bigot is not even in the same ballpark as this. Are you just trying to stir the pot?
I don't think I did anything wrong. I was going to apologize to her but I didn't do anything bad so I won't apologize. People walk out on dates all the time but it I get attacked when I do it. She will live..
People walk out on dates when the other person has done something terrible or extremely rude. This girl did not.
You're right, she'll live. She's actually quite lucky you walked out so she didn't have to waste more time sitting at the table with a weirdo.
Go back to your all boys circle jerk in your parents basement.
A woman walking out on a date for being a bigot is not even in the same ballpark as this. Are you just trying to stir the pot?
Regardless of how people feel about 49's actions....it wouldn't be the same if the roles were reversed. I didn't mean to interrupt the chastising of someone for stupid actions...I know that makes everyone feel better about themselves.
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