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Old 04-01-2014, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
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Old 04-01-2014, 04:54 PM
 
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I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
Woman that are young and attractive women are single because most guys are to scared to ask them out.
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Old 04-01-2014, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Now the truth comes out...
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Now the truth comes out...
What do you mean...?
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:08 PM
 
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If she said "no," would you still feel confident about yourself or would you have felt crushed?
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:09 PM
 
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Now the truth comes out...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j2F4VcBmeo
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:09 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive.

Why? You hate dating, don't like women, and have no desire for a gf. What was your intent?

And no, it isn't normal... anything about what you're doing or saying.
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:12 PM
 
Location: Canada
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What do you mean...?
Barely 7 hours ago you were going on about how "dating as a whole is stupid", and in other posts you'll never approach another woman again, etc. So which is it?
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:14 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Well, HALLELUJAH! Praise the Lord! A C-D guy finally realized that the whole myth about attractive women being taken, attractive women having men lined up daily to ask them out, blah blah blah, is just that--a myth. Congratulations, OP! Now sing it for your brothers! You'll only be doing single women a favor.

Bravo!


Now....what are you going to do for an encore?
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:16 PM
 
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I can't answer your question, but I wish you the best 49... I hope it all goes well for you What are you doing on your date?
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