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Old 06-10-2014, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I suppose I am missing your point, then.
jaypee was simply saying that if the person you are dating is a parent, then it is nice to acknowledge them with a card on Mother's Day or Father's Day since the day is about celebrating all mothers and fathers.
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Old 06-10-2014, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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Boyfriend" is a single dad. Should I give a father's day gift??
NO!!

This is the same thing I always say to men who are dating women with kids on Mothers Day. NO!! They are not YOUR kids so you should not give gifts or do anything special. That is the job of the father of the child(ren) not you.

A simple Happy Father's day is plenty enough.
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Old 06-10-2014, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Boyfriend, no. Husband, yes.
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Old 06-10-2014, 10:12 PM
 
Location: NJ
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If possible, help his daughter get a gift or card for dad, or help her make dinner or breakfast for him.

It's hard when you're that young to arrange for holiday gifts on your own.
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Old 06-11-2014, 02:55 AM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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a gentleman would always appreciate and say thank you for a small gift.
I dont think you have to spend too much, it's the thought that counts.
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Old 06-11-2014, 03:24 AM
 
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All this time, I thought Mother's Day and Father's Day were celebrations of motherhood and fatherhood -- not just -your- mother and father.
Well, I think all this time you've thought wrong.
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Old 06-11-2014, 03:29 AM
 
Location: sumter
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A nice card will do just fine. I get Father's day cards from people other than my kids all the time, I get them from my sisters, niece, friends, and a few coworkers that I have really good working relationship with, and my church always give out a small gift to all the fathers in the church. Father's day is to recognize the fathers and is not just for his kids only to do something for him. I also get lots of text messages saying happy father's day and I do the same. I send a text out to all the fathers I have on my contact list. And the father figures in your life should be recognized also.
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Old 06-11-2014, 03:40 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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I think it is a great idea. maybe even a small card too, I wouldn't just let the day go by with nothing.
Yup. No need for a grand gesture, but something small would probably make his day, especially if his daughter is with mom and mom isn't doing anything to facilitate father-daughter time on Father's Day.
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Old 06-11-2014, 05:10 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Acknowledging it would be fine, but I don't think going the gift route is necessary.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:52 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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A nice card will do just fine. I get Father's day cards from people other than my kids all the time, I get them from my sisters, niece, friends, and a few coworkers that I have really good working relationship with, and my church always give out a small gift to all the fathers in the church. Father's day is to recognize the fathers and is not just for his kids only to do something for him. I also get lots of text messages saying happy father's day and I do the same. I send a text out to all the fathers I have on my contact list. And the father figures in your life should be recognized also.
+1

Glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks this way.
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