Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Closed Thread Start New Thread
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Chicago
3,391 posts, read 4,498,583 times
Reputation: 7857

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by healthy_ View Post
Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience. Do you think such a person should be allowed to catch up with their spouse by having other relationships? Or do you think they should make up in some other way, e.g. postpone marriage for later?
If you mean should they be permitted to have sex with others against their partner's wishes and without their partner's knowledge, then no. What they should do is not be an idiot and marry someone if they still want to have sex with lots of different people.

 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:42 AM
 
Location: cali
231 posts, read 265,823 times
Reputation: 282
Is this question even real?

Just because of a lifestyle decision someone made, doesn't give them the right to hurt someone else later in life!
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:43 AM
 
35,094 posts, read 51,475,916 times
Reputation: 62673
Quote:
Originally Posted by healthy_ View Post
They'll always feel like they missed out. Besides sex with an inexperienced person sucks.

How in the world would you know how anyone else will feel? When one has nothing to compare to they cannot "miss out" on something they did not have and being a virgin means there is nothing to "miss out" on or compare to because they have no experience.


I bet the person you first has sex with (if you have had actual sex) thought the exact same thing about you.

Funny how that works huh?


** it is definitely nap time**
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:46 AM
 
12,535 posts, read 15,254,471 times
Reputation: 29088
If a virgin is that hung up on sleeping around, he or she should have done so before getting into a committed, monogamous relationship that led to marriage. Anyone old enough to get married knows this. In fact, anyone old enough to get into an R-rated movie knows this. Shoo!
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
21,192 posts, read 25,265,790 times
Reputation: 22287
No. The experienced person should go to a clinic and have their experience removed. It's only fair.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:47 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
41,936 posts, read 37,178,375 times
Reputation: 40641
It isn't cheating if they have permission. Question doesn't make sense.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:47 AM
 
22,278 posts, read 21,847,912 times
Reputation: 54737
I think I get the picture. OP is looking for the easy way to unburden himself of his virginity (arranged marriage probably) and is planning ahead for ways to have fun with his willy afterwards once he has achieved studhood.

Am I close?
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:47 AM
 
12,535 posts, read 15,254,471 times
Reputation: 29088
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dewdrop93 View Post
No. The experienced person should go to a clinic and have their experience removed. It's only fair.


That made my morning.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Keosauqua, Iowa
9,614 posts, read 21,357,523 times
Reputation: 13679
Quote:
Originally Posted by 2mares View Post
In my best Groucho Marx voice, "That's the Most Ridiculous Thing I've Ever Heard."
In my best Hank Hill voice, "That's just asinine."
 
Old 06-12-2014, 12:52 PM
 
399 posts, read 358,566 times
Reputation: 259
Quote:
Originally Posted by RogersParkGuy View Post
If you mean should they be permitted to have sex with others against their partner's wishes and without their partner's knowledge, then no. What they should do is not be an idiot and marry someone if they still want to have sex with lots of different people.
No, of course not. I mean if their partner agrees to have an open relationship.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Closed Thread


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top