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Old 06-12-2014, 08:24 AM
 
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Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience. Do you think such a person should be allowed to catch up with their spouse by having other relationships? Or do you think they should make up in some other way, e.g. postpone marriage for later?

 
Old 06-12-2014, 08:35 AM
 
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You don't know much about love and sex, do you? Are you a virgin yourself?
 
Old 06-12-2014, 08:37 AM
 
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Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience. Do you think such a person should be allowed to catch up with their spouse by having other relationships? Or do you think they should make up in some other way, e.g. postpone marriage for later?

Sure go on out and catch up with your spouse as far as sexual partners go and see how long the marriage lasts.
Let us know how it goes.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 08:41 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience. Do you think such a person should be allowed to catch up with their spouse by having other relationships? Or do you think they should make up in some other way, e.g. postpone marriage for later?
Why would they feel cheated?
 
Old 06-12-2014, 08:53 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience. Do you think such a person should be allowed to catch up with their spouse by having other relationships? Or do you think they should make up in some other way, e.g. postpone marriage for later?

Stop speaking for the spoken for. There's nothing saying we will 'definitely' feel cheated if the partner has more experience, most of us as adults expect the other person to have that. If they do feel cheated I say to that oh well, they should've gotten experiences in (if that's what they wanted) before marrying.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 08:57 AM
 
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Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience.
Just because YOU feel cheated does not mean everyone does!
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:06 AM
 
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Why would they feel cheated?
They'll always feel like they missed out. Besides sex with an inexperienced person sucks.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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They'll always feel like they missed out.
Then the inexperienced person shouldn't get into a relationship with ONE person.

A person who feels they are OWED a variety of sexual experience shouldn't commit to anyone.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:34 AM
 
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Imagine a virgin marrying their first partner. They will definitely feel cheated that their husband/wife had more sexual experience. Do you think such a person should be allowed to catch up with their spouse by having other relationships? Or do you think they should make up in some other way, e.g. postpone marriage for later?
In my best Groucho Marx voice, "That's the Most Ridiculous Thing I've Ever Heard."
 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:36 AM
 
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They'll always feel like they missed out. Besides sex with an inexperienced person sucks.
What personal experience do you base these wild theories on?
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