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Old 06-22-2014, 05:33 PM
 
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Definitely! I think oral sex is WAY WAY MORE intimate than regular old missionary style sex.
I don't think of it that way. I mean, I put stuff in my mouth all day. I eat food, I drink, I brush my teeth...lol I'm not saying that I'll do oral with just anyone, but it wasn't a big deal to me the times that I have done it. So for me, I would think that having intercourse is more intimate than oral.
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Old 06-22-2014, 05:37 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I don't think of it that way. I mean, I put stuff in my mouth all day. I eat food, I drink, I brush my teeth...lol I'm not saying that I'll do oral with just anyone, but it wasn't a big deal to me the times that I have done it. So for me, I would think that having intercourse is more intimate than oral.
This post is mind numbingly hard to comprehend.... A man's P in your mouth is less intimate than regular sex?????
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Old 06-22-2014, 05:37 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I never agreed to wait. My mother didn't raise me with the expectation to wait, and we surely aren't raising our kids to wait, either. I would prefer they wait until they're mentally, emotionally and physically ready for it, but there's no expectation that they wait until marriage. I see no value or importance in waiting until matrimony. We aren't puritans, after all.
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Old 06-22-2014, 05:39 PM
 
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I don't think of it that way. I mean, I put stuff in my mouth all day. I eat food, I drink, I brush my teeth...lol I'm not saying that I'll do oral with just anyone, but it wasn't a big deal to me the times that I have done it. So for me, I would think that having intercourse is more intimate than oral.
Genitals in the mouth are a regular thing?

How about tampons in the vagina? Don't they get put there regularly?

I'm pretty stunned.
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Old 06-22-2014, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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This post is mind numbingly hard to comprehend.... A man's P in your mouth is less intimate than regular sex?????
You're surprised that someone would find inserting something into their vagina to be more intimate than putting it in their mouth? I don't find that to be surprising in the least.
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Old 06-22-2014, 05:40 PM
 
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This post is mind numbingly hard to comprehend.... A man's P in your mouth is less intimate than regular sex?????
Yes. For me.

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How about tampons in the vagina? Don't they get put there regularly?
No, I've only ever used pads.
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Old 06-22-2014, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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This post is mind numbingly hard to comprehend.... A man's P in your mouth is less intimate than regular sex?????
Remember, she's in the post Clinton generation, many of whom don't comprehend oral sex to even BE sex
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Old 06-22-2014, 06:01 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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It's good you had that level of foresight to see that... I know what I was 14 or 15, I most certainly didn't.
Have knocked up friends at 15, and, at least as a girl, it affects your perspective, one way or another.
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Old 06-22-2014, 06:02 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I was going to wait until marriage.

But I decided to wait until I fall in love with or really like the guy.
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Old 06-22-2014, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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My jaw drops when I hear younger people say that the only sex that is "real" is missionary style regular sex. In fact, a girl that does messenger work at my workplace claims that she's never had sex because she has only engaged in oral sex with the guy she's seeing. That sounds demented.
It then stands to reason that these people would be a-ok with their spouse/significant other having oral sex with, you know, whomever...because it's not real sex, and it's certainly not intimate, right?
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