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Old 08-03-2014, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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Do you exist?

Do you enjoy being over 50 and single?

Why or why not?
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Do you exist?

Do you enjoy being over 50 and single?

Why or why not?
I know a few people who are and yes, they do enjoy it.

Most of them have arranged their lives to be exactly what they are and are quite content.

I think it all comes down to how much you like your own company.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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I know a few people who are and yes, they do enjoy it.

Most of them have arranged their lives to be exactly what they are and are quite content.

I think it all comes down to how much you like your own company.
My thinking is, people that are over 50y/o and single would enjoy it more than they would in younger years.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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My thinking is, people that are over 50y/o and single would enjoy it more than they would in younger years.
Some do. I think there's just a comfortable place people come to over time where they like having an uncomplicated life. The reality is, having a partner means always having to compromise and take the other persons opinion in to account. Sometimes it is just easier to not have that extra "work" for some folks
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:35 PM
 
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OTOH, 4 out of 5 couples that I know who have married in recent years have been in their 50s. Maybe they had enough of the single life .
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:38 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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OTOH, 4 out of 5 couples that I know who have married in recent years have been in their 50s. Maybe they had enough of the single life .
Yes. Some 50's I know have been unhappily married and divorced, and enjoy their solitude. Others are still looking for their special someone. You can't generalize at all.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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Yes. Some 50's I know have been unhappily married and divorced, and enjoy their solitude. Others are still looking for their special someone. You can't generalize at all.
Nothing in my OP is a generalization. I asked specific questions to a specific demographic.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:45 PM
 
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no i dont exist, i am just a figment of raenas imagination. and i do quite well at it too.

actually i do prefer being alone at my age, for the most part. i will socialize with other when invited.
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Old 08-04-2014, 04:01 AM
 
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I am 53, and yes, people like me exist.

I like being alone, but I also like being in a relationship.

While I am alone, I am learning about myself. But, I wouldn't shut a man out who was interested.

I enjoy being able to just come & go without having to consider another person. At the same time, I never minded telling someone where I was going & when I'd be back. Since I'm single, I never have to think about making dinner, because I just don't make dinner. It's too much hassle for just me.
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Old 08-04-2014, 05:01 AM
 
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I know quite a few people in that group. They seem fine. They're all smart and attractive enough to have plenty of options.

I think most wouldn't mind being in a relationship under the right circumstances, but they prefer living alone and being able to set the terms of their social activities.

Very few of the single people I know want to avoid having an intimate relationship, so they're not antisocial curmudgeons.
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