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Please no bashing me lol. This guy friend of mine, Steve is pretty cool. I never mentioned him in my posts. Well I rejected him a lot (I will explain if you want me to) But I do have feelings for him. He use to show interest, but then he stopped talking to me for 4 months, because I unintentionally "friendzoned" him and so I haven't seen or heard from him then I go over to a friend's house and Steve is there, and he was really nice to me and seemed happy to see me. I am only assuming, but I think he has a girlfriend. He was saying to my friends how much he likes her, and she's beautiful etc. He never actually said it's his girlfriend, but they act like it on Facebook, and it's pretty noticeable. Steve calls me later in the day and he was asking if I knew anyone that would buy his weed cause he needed cash that night. I had a friend who was interested so I went over to Steve's house, and he was acting sexual and he was flirting, so I said "Steve you have a girlfriend! Stop it!" He said "No I don't" His sister calls, and he was saying to his sister, basically how clingy the girl is, and how he is disinterested in her basically. Then I noticed his "girlfriend" calls and he doesn't pick it up. I said I had to leave cause I am going on a date. He was noticeably upset about it, he kept questioning my date, "Who is he?" "What are you guys gonna do?" etc. He even said "Ditch your date and come to a party with me!" He just kept questioning. So I noticed he put something in my purse when I left I checked it and it was a note that said "Heather I love you sweetheart"
So I got stupid drunk with my date and came home, I texted Steve and said "I love you! In a gay way lol, Not trying to sound inappropriate buddy" He called me, and he said "Are you in love with that guy? Are you in love with your date?" I said "No but I had fun!" He then said "Come over my house, Please come over, I am having a house party, and there's beer you can stay here, come over babygirl" Lol, I agreed to go but then I passed out. I woke up to a text saying "Where are you?" and one by his friend saying "Where you at?" I felt bad so I texted Steve and said "Oh my! I am so embarrassed! I passed out and I was really drunk, I don't really remember last night. Sorry Steve <3" He never responded to my text. Now I don't know if he's mad? What do you get from all of this? Why would he care about my date if he has a girlfriend? Why would he question? If you were him how would you react? I don't know what to think of this. Thank you.
He cares because you are both young and having fun, and he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Sounds like you do as well. He's probably annoyed that you didn't come over because he wanted to hook up that night, but might be second guessing it right now.
I know you said not to bash you and I'm not trying to, but this all sounds like a hot mess. If you're just looking for fun then hook up with him, because it seems like that's all he's up for; if not, and you are looking for something "real" with him, then I'd steer clear, because it sounds like you'll get hurt.
Steve is not mad, he is probably just not interested in a "babe" who drinks to the point of passing out, or consume alcohol to the point of unconsciousness.
You need a professional help...
To me it reads like he thought you were drunk enough that you'd come over and give him a booty call, and that's all he wanted. I don't think he's mad at you now, just not interested unless you're drunk and what he considers easy pickings. If he is mad, I'd guess it's because he feels you were a tease, but it's only a guess.
If he wants a relationship with you, you'll know because he'll break up with his gf and ask you out.
Please no bashing me lol. This guy friend of mine, Steve is pretty cool. I never mentioned him in my posts. Well I rejected him a lot (I will explain if you want me to) But I do have feelings for him. He use to show interest, but then he stopped talking to me for 4 months, because I unintentionally "friendzoned" him and so I haven't seen or heard from him then I go over to a friend's house and Steve is there, and he was really nice to me and seemed happy to see me. I am only assuming, but I think he has a girlfriend. He was saying to my friends how much he likes her, and she's beautiful etc. He never actually said it's his girlfriend, but they act like it on Facebook, and it's pretty noticeable. Steve calls me later in the day and he was asking if I knew anyone that would buy his weed cause he needed cash that night. I had a friend who was interested so I went over to Steve's house, and he was acting sexual and he was flirting, so I said "Steve you have a girlfriend! Stop it!" He said "No I don't" His sister calls, and he was saying to his sister, basically how clingy the girl is, and how he is disinterested in her basically. Then I noticed his "girlfriend" calls and he doesn't pick it up. I said I had to leave cause I am going on a date. He was noticeably upset about it, he kept questioning my date, "Who is he?" "What are you guys gonna do?" etc. He even said "Ditch your date and come to a party with me!" He just kept questioning. So I noticed he put something in my purse when I left I checked it and it was a note that said "Heather I love you sweetheart"
So I got stupid drunk with my date and came home, I texted Steve and said "I love you! In a gay way lol, Not trying to sound inappropriate buddy" He called me, and he said "Are you in love with that guy? Are you in love with your date?" I said "No but I had fun!" He then said "Come over my house, Please come over, I am having a house party, and there's beer you can stay here, come over babygirl" Lol, I agreed to go but then I passed out. I woke up to a text saying "Where are you?" and one by his friend saying "Where you at?" I felt bad so I texted Steve and said "Oh my! I am so embarrassed! I passed out and I was really drunk, I don't really remember last night. Sorry Steve <3" He never responded to my text. Now I don't know if he's mad? What do you get from all of this? Why would he care about my date if he has a girlfriend? Why would he question? If you were him how would you react? I don't know what to think of this. Thank you.
You forgot to throw in that he works for your dad, or used to work for your dad, or knows your brother who works for your dad, or knows someone who has a cousin who used to know a guy who used to work for your dad who knows a guy who currently works for your dad.
You also forgot to mention all the conversations this guy and his friend and your date have with your dad when they text him.
Give him a call, it sounds like you guys are perfect for each other.
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