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I don't want to go through 30 rejections just to find one woman who will date me. Too much work and not worth the effort. I'll pay for sex before I approach multiple women.
Ain't that the truth. A while back I joked that at least when a man has a sexual dry spell, he's got options and a pretty good choice of women to choose from (paid sex). Try being a sexually frustrated woman with only married or otherwise attached to someone male friends (they always say "go to a male friend and he will sleep with you" Like we all have a bunch of horny, single, male friends out there who are secretly attracted to us or something).
There are male escorts out there as well.
But wouldn't you agree that sex "for free", its generally easier for a woman to find sex than it is a man?
I've never paid for an escort, it's just not something I would do.
But wouldn't you agree that sex "for free", its generally easier for a woman to find sex than it is a man?
I've never paid for an escort, it's just not something I would do.
Most male escorts are gay-male escorts. There are gigolos though. But they are very rare.
I think you are right though, all things being equal, women can find sex easier than a man. But sex and good sex where her needs are met are two different things. As a woman, you take the risk that your random, free sex man might not actually take care of your needs and you end up pumped and dumped without any kind of satisfaction and end up more sexually frustrated than if you didn't try in the first place. You get what you pay for (so to speak). I think that's why women just turn to "toys" so to speak. Satisfaction guaranteed... and no risk! lol
Most male escorts are gay-male escorts. There are gigolos though. But they are very rare.
I think you are right though, all things being equal, women can find sex easier than a man. But sex and good sex where her needs are met are two different things. As a woman, you take the risk that your random, free sex man might not actually take care of your needs and you end up pumped and dumped without any kind of satisfaction and end up more sexually frustrated than if you didn't try in the first place. You get what you pay for (so to speak). I think that's why women just turn to "toys" so to speak. Satisfaction guaranteed... and no risk! lol
I see where you coming from, all of those are valid points.
I'm a male, so I don't have your perspective. I know that when I was single and horny, it was a lot harder for me to get it than my female friends. But that doesn't mean they were satisfied.
I've had women that just lay there and didnt do much for me, but at the end of the day I would also leave somewhat "satisfied", I guess women cant say the same thing sometimes.
Then if we are talking about guys who make over a million a year, probably 95% of those guys see prostitutes or have mistresses on the side. The POWER of money!
I can't speak for the ultimate pinnacle of wealth, but most mere 1%-ers are stodgy and staid fellows, loath to risk their marriages (if married) and conditioned to lifelong self-restraint. Money comes from disavowing appetite and delaying gratification; not indulging it. I'd suspect that most customers of prostitution are middle-class, or perhaps upper-middle-class at the outside. The wealth=power trope is only valid in so far as the wealthy are insulated from economic vicissitudes such as globalization and automation. But the indulgence in personal pleasure, whether sexual or otherwise, correlates weakly with possession of wealth.
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Originally Posted by jillabean
A while back I joked that at least when a man has a sexual dry spell, he's got options and a pretty good choice of women to choose from (paid sex). Try being a sexually frustrated woman with only married or otherwise attached to someone male friends ...
Sexually frustrated men and women of the world, unite!
In all seriousness, the parallels in frustration between the two genders are stronger than either gender is willing to admit. The problem is in finding each other and admitting our problems. Most of the frustrated women on the forum, and most of the frustrated men, are not pathological cases. They are not unfortunate abominations of nature, creatures of ugliness or insanity. They're just overwrought by a few basic difficulties, difficulties that don't trouble the so-called mainstream.
Can't we get some sort of matchmaking service going here? Why is the "personals" subsection of this forum such a tawdry joke? Can't we do better. Or would that, according to American law, be... illegal?
Well gosh guys I didn't know we were such a nuisance lol
actually i think women are a pleasure to deal with.
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Originally Posted by soy sauce
You have no idea what men go through
oh please, us guys are easy. feed us, give us some sex now and then, and let us sleep, and the women can do just about anything they want to us. as has been said about men;
men are like sidewalks, lay us right once, and you can walk on us for a long long time.
If all a man wants is a quick piece of sex, it is cheaper to call a hooker than go through the annoying process of courting, wining, dining, flowers, etc.
I can't speak for the ultimate pinnacle of wealth, but most mere 1%-ers are stodgy and staid fellows, loath to risk their marriages (if married) and conditioned to lifelong self-restraint. Money comes from disavowing appetite and delaying gratification; not indulging it. I'd suspect that most customers of prostitution are middle-class, or perhaps upper-middle-class at the outside. The wealth=power trope is only valid in so far as the wealthy are insulated from economic vicissitudes such as globalization and automation. But the indulgence in personal pleasure, whether sexual or otherwise, correlates weakly with possession of wealth.
Sexually frustrated men and women of the world, unite!
In all seriousness, the parallels in frustration between the two genders are stronger than either gender is willing to admit. The problem is in finding each other and admitting our problems. Most of the frustrated women on the forum, and most of the frustrated men, are not pathological cases. They are not unfortunate abominations of nature, creatures of ugliness or insanity. They're just overwrought by a few basic difficulties, difficulties that don't trouble the so-called mainstream.
Can't we get some sort of matchmaking service going here? Why is the "personals" subsection of this forum such a tawdry joke? Can't we do better. Or would that, according to American law, be... illegal?
I wouldnt think it would be illegal if money wasn't involved LOL.
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Like we all have a bunch of horny, single, male friends out there who are secretly attracted to us or something).
