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Old 08-22-2014, 01:47 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Ask any escort. The majority of their clients are married men. Why? Men get tired of having sex with the same woman over and over regardless of how good their sex life is. It's like having your favorite meal for dinner then eating it every single day! They pay for sex in order to experience something new and take a break from the norm. It's exciting. Not to mention escorts dont become obsessive and clingy like side women.
If I had a beautiful girlfriend or wife, I'd never get tired of having sex with her.
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Old 08-22-2014, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Ain't that the truth. A while back I joked that at least when a man has a sexual dry spell, he's got options and a pretty good choice of women to choose from (paid sex). Try being a sexually frustrated woman with only married or otherwise attached to someone male friends (they always say "go to a male friend and he will sleep with you" Like we all have a bunch of horny, single, male friends out there who are secretly attracted to us or something).
Most of your male friends will bang you for free if a woman is that horny.
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Old 08-22-2014, 01:52 PM
 
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If I had a beautiful girlfriend or wife, I'd never get tired of having sex with her.
Unfortunately I see a lot of older men who've been married for a long time eventually stray, even towards escorts. The roving eye gets larger the longer a man stays with the same woman.
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Old 08-22-2014, 02:00 PM
 
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Most of your male friends will bang you for free if a woman is that horny.
As I said before, they are mostly married... so no, they won't (and I wouldn't dream of breaking apart my friend marriages or relationships anyway... I am not amoral or evil). The three who aren't... one has a live-in girlfriend, one is in his 70s and lives on the opposite coast, and the other was a lover for a while, but he ended it beucase he didn't want a long-distance relationship and flaked out about what he thought I needed (although I never told him what I needed).

There is this assumption on this forum that all women are swimming in single, horny, male friends. That's just not the case. That's my point.
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Old 08-22-2014, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Because the net benefits are higher (and perhaps more certain) than for the next-best alternative.
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Old 08-22-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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As I said before, they are mostly married... so no, they won't (and I wouldn't dream of breaking apart my friend marriages or relationships anyway... I am not amoral or evil). The three who aren't... one has a live-in girlfriend, one is in his 70s and lives on the opposite coast, and the other was a lover for a while, but he ended it beucase he didn't want a long-distance relationship and flaked out about what he thought I needed (although I never told him what I needed).

There is this assumption on this forum that all women are swimming in single, horny, male friends. That's just not the case. That's my point.
Going after a friend is not a good idea anyway, that is just asking for trouble. Honestly I think a woman has an easier time finding a man to.have sex with than a man finding a woman to have sex with, if not prostitution wouldn't exist, but anyway I guess most women look for relationship and that is where they might be having trouble, a lot of men don't want to be tied up and that is their right. I believe the desicion to have sex even when money is involved should belong entirely to the parties involved and it should not be for anyone else especially the law to govern.
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Old 08-22-2014, 03:27 PM
 
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Why pay for sex? Because its cheaper.
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Old 08-22-2014, 03:29 PM
 
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Going after a friend is not a good idea anyway, that is just asking for trouble. Honestly I think a woman has an easier time finding a man to.have sex with than a man finding a woman to have sex with, if not prostitution wouldn't exist, but anyway I guess most women look for relationship and that is where they might be having trouble, a lot of men don't want to be tied up and that is their right. I believe the desicion to have sex even when money is involved should belong entirely to the parties involved and it should not be for anyone else especially the law to govern.

I agree there.

And like I said, yes, it's easier for a woman to find sex. But I don't think it's necessarily easier for a woman to find good sex. If a man doesn't care about her and her needs (which is easy to imagine in a casual encounter) she could very well have sex but never reach orgasm. It would be like a woman giving a guy unfinished sex and blue balls and saying "that counts" as sexual fulfillment.

Really, neither men nor women have it "easier." As another poster said, grass is always greener.
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Old 08-22-2014, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I agree there.

And like I said, yes, it's easier for a woman to find sex. But I don't think it's necessarily easier for a woman to find good sex. If a man doesn't care about her and her needs (which is easy to imagine in a casual encounter) she could very well have sex but never reach orgasm. It would be like a woman giving a guy unfinished sex and blue balls and saying "that counts" as sexual fulfillment.

Really, neither men nor women have it "easier." As another poster said, grass is always greener.
I certainly do not dispute that at all, I was just referring to the ratio of success as far as finding a willing partner.
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Old 08-22-2014, 04:11 PM
 
Location: back in Boston
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From what I've heard, you're not actually paying for the sex...you're paying her to leave afterwards.
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