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So my ex (my child father) and I aren't t/g anymore, we currently have a child otw! Baby be here in 9wks
But if you've read my previous post here, you'll get a brief background of how unsupportive and stubborn he's been throughout my pregnancy.
This week is the 1st time he's been civilized and respectful in a long time, and put his selfness to the side. We finally decided on a baby name, claims he's going to do what he suppose to when it comes to his responsibilities. Claim he still loves me and doesn't want me to have kids with anyone else.
My thing is I didn't hear I would like to reenter a relationship and think he's feeding me BS! This morning he texts saying i'm not ****! Asking him to get things for our son and still have plans of taking out child support & getting child care including w/child support order. That it want give me much to do when I have a job.
I have bills and rent to pay myself. He currently has a rmmate and everything is split down the middle in his home. I pay all my bills with no help or government assistance. Getting frustrated.
Do u also think he's feeding me BS thinking that I want take child support out? Do u believe he still loves me? Cause I feel like if u still love some1 u still want to be in a relationship w them and wouldn't state u don't want them to have kids with someone else. But like I said Is he never stated he wanted to reenter relationship w/me.
You're speculating on child support extremely early. If he doesn't go on the birth certificate while at the hospital, you have to take him to court for a DNA before support is ordered. You're looking at 3-6 months AFTER the child is born before a support case even gets underway in the court system.
Get the support thing out of your head, you got bigger issues right now - like, finishing the pregnancy.
Actions speak louder than words. If his actions don't match his words, then his words are nothing.
So my ex (my child father) and I aren't t/g anymore, we currently have a child otw! Baby be here in 9wks
But if you've read my previous post here, you'll get a brief background of how unsupportive and stubborn he's been throughout my pregnancy.
This week is the 1st time he's been civilized and respectful in a long time, and put his selfness to the side. We finally decided on a baby name, claims he's going to do what he suppose to when it comes to his responsibilities. Claim he still loves me and doesn't want me to have kids with anyone else.
My thing is I didn't hear I would like to reenter a relationship and think he's feeding me BS! This morning he texts saying i'm not ****! Asking him to get things for our son and still have plans of taking out child support & getting child care including w/child support order. That it want give me much to do when I have a job.
I have bills and rent to pay myself. He currently has a rmmate and everything is split down the middle in his home. I pay all my bills with no help or government assistance. Getting frustrated.
Do u also think he's feeding me BS thinking that I want take child support out? Do u believe he still loves me? Cause I feel like if u still love some1 u still want to be in a relationship w them and wouldn't state u don't want them to have kids with someone else. But like I said Is he never stated he wanted to reenter relationship w/me.
So it's okay for him to impregnate you and break up with you but he doesn't want someone else to have the chance to do the same?
Are you married and getting divorced or not married but broke up?
It doesn't matter what he wants when it comes to your life if you are divorced or not married, what matters and what he has a legal interest in is the child.
Anything past that is none of his concern but whatever happens when/if he is ordered to pay child support demand that it be paid through the courts and not directly to you. That way there is documentation through the courts that he is or is not paying and you can pursue him legally if need be at a future time.
Make your ex agree to sign the birth certificate in exchange for naming the baby after him.
1st, the father signs the paperwork to acknowledge paternity.
2nd, you name the baby after the father..
Do not reconcile with the father. Your romantic relationship is over. However, it will be a good thing for your son to grow up knowing his father. Be as civil about it as possible. Try to take the high road.
Find a social worker ASAP to help you cope with your housing and child support issues.
So my ex (my child father) and I aren't t/g anymore, we currently have a child otw! Baby be here in 9wks
But if you've read my previous post here, you'll get a brief background of how unsupportive and stubborn he's been throughout my pregnancy.
This week is the 1st time he's been civilized and respectful in a long time, and put his selfness to the side. We finally decided on a baby name, claims he's going to do what he suppose to when it comes to his responsibilities. Claim he still loves me and doesn't want me to have kids with anyone else.
My thing is I didn't hear I would like to reenter a relationship and think he's feeding me BS! This morning he texts saying i'm not ****! Asking him to get things for our son and still have plans of taking out child support & getting child care including w/child support order. That it want give me much to do when I have a job.
I have bills and rent to pay myself. He currently has a rmmate and everything is split down the middle in his home. I pay all my bills with no help or government assistance. Getting frustrated.
Do u also think he's feeding me BS thinking that I want take child support out? Do u believe he still loves me? Cause I feel like if u still love some1 u still want to be in a relationship w them and wouldn't state u don't want them to have kids with someone else. But like I said Is he never stated he wanted to reenter relationship w/me.
Just wait till the baby is in this world. Some times people do change. May be he will come back. May be not. But it is a good thing at least if he supports you with father responsibility. Think positively.
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