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Old 09-20-2014, 10:09 PM
 
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I'm a 45 year old man and I've never had a serious or long lasting relationship before. I've been going to escorts every week for the past 10 years. It's my Friday night treat and I'm always looking forward to it. We just have fun, I pay her and say goodbye.

I work on a job that I enjoy (mechanical engineer in a multinational company), live on my own in a top floor apartment, pay my bills and love my family. I also work with a charity organization 3 times a week. I'm just curious if people would think my life is a bit unorthodox since some friends have had strange reactions when I told them this.

I have an STD check every 3 months and I've never had any trouble so far.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:15 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:19 PM
 
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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You love your family? So you're married? :-O If so then yes that is definitely wrong. :-O

I do think prostitution should be legal but I would never go to a prostitute. I think sex should occur between people who care about each other.

I'm a 36 year old male virgin but I wouldn't do that. It defeats the purpose of having waited for something meaningful.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:19 PM
 
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Thank you for the link but from reading a few posts it seems like a very different situation.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:22 PM
 
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You love your family? So you're married? :-O If so then yes that is definitely wrong. :-O
My family meaing my mother, my siblings and their children.

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I'm a 36 year old male virgin but I wouldn't do that. It defeats the purpose of having waited for something meaningful.
I also wouldn't advise it for the first time.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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As a woman i would have a major problem with it if we were in a relationship and I found out about your past. Its just wrong on so many levels.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:39 PM
 
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As a woman i would have a major problem with it if we were in a relationship and I found out about your past. Its just wrong on so many levels.
I understand your position and I would tell her about my past (meaning there would be no relationship whatsoever). We're speaking hypothetically of course, that relationship won't happen but still, I would tell the truth regarding my past.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:43 PM
 
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I'm a 45 year old man and I've never had a serious or long lasting relationship before. I've been going to escorts every week for the past 10 years. It's my Friday night treat and I'm always looking forward to it. We just have fun, I pay her and say goodbye.

I work on a job that I enjoy (mechanical engineer in a multinational company), live on my own in a top floor apartment, pay my bills and love my family. I also work with a charity organization 3 times a week. I'm just curious if people would think my life is a bit unorthodox since some friends have had strange reactions when I told them this.

I have an STD check every 3 months and I've never had any trouble so far.


Didn't we cover this several months ago?

If you want to visit escorts then feel free to do so as long as you are not cheating on someone or going into debt doing it.
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:47 PM
 
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Didn't we cover this several months ago?
If so, I'm sorry. Didn't know about it.

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If you want to visit escorts then feel free to do so as long as you are not cheating on someone or going into debt doing it.
Oh not at all. I have a budget and I keep it on track. I just naturally save a lot of money (low household expenses, don't smoke, etc).
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Old 09-20-2014, 10:55 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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I'm a 45 year old man and I've never had a serious or long lasting relationship before. I've been going to escorts every week for the past 10 years. It's my Friday night treat and I'm always looking forward to it. We just have fun, I pay her and say goodbye.

I work on a job that I enjoy (mechanical engineer in a multinational company), live on my own in a top floor apartment, pay my bills and love my family. I also work with a charity organization 3 times a week. I'm just curious if people would think my life is a bit unorthodox since some friends have had strange reactions when I told them this.

I have an STD check every 3 months and I've never had any trouble so far.
Sounds like you doing everything right to me. Good for you!
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