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View Poll Results: How many dates do you usually go on, before becoming intimate?
3 - 4 dates 15 57.69%
5 - 8 dates 6 23.08%
9 - 15 dates 2 7.69%
It takes me many months before I sleep with someone 3 11.54%
Voters: 26. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 09-21-2014, 03:10 AM
 
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And just to be clear, by "becoming intimate" I mean sleeping with the person.
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Old 09-21-2014, 04:11 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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The shortest I really had to wait was with my current girlfriend, and I think that was 7 or 8 dates? Somethin like that.. honestly I don't remember.
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Old 09-21-2014, 04:21 AM
 
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where's the 1-2 dates option?
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:03 AM
 
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where's the 1-2 dates option?
I'm sorry, I realized I should've included that option right after I posted the thread. But there doesn't seem to be a way to edit polls after they're made =/
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:49 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Date, to me, kinda seems like still casual-not an item yet. No sex until we are a official item, and I have really gotten to know, trust, and love the person. So, may be some months for me. Definitely not a few dates.
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Old 09-21-2014, 07:13 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Depends on the man.
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Old 09-21-2014, 07:16 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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Totally varies. If I had to give a range I'd say 3-4, though some were more. Once it happened on the first date, but that was a very rare circumstance, for me anyway.
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Old 09-21-2014, 08:07 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Sleep isn't always involved, but sex usually is. Call it what it is, not some cutesy euphemism for the kiddies in the room.
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Old 09-21-2014, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Sleep isn't always involved, but sex usually is. Call it what it is, not some cutesy euphemism for the kiddies in the room.
Well in that case.......no they censor that.
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Old 09-21-2014, 08:15 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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I'm usually 2 dates in. I usually try to wait for three but other parts of me have a differing agenda...
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