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Is it a sexless marriage or does she just have a lower sex drive than you? Does she not want to have sex with you because of the way you treat her? Can she sense that you are no longer attracted to her?
Listen, you can't have both a wife and a girlfriend. Yes, it's a rush and heady when you are with your girlfriend. The sex is wonderful. But neither of you have to face reality when you are with each other.
You get to have partner who is always ready for you; who is not bogged down with the cares of taking care of your children and being married to you. She gets, well we don't really know what she gets out of this (what she told you sounds like the female version of 'my wife doesn't understand me and no, we are not sleeping together'). Keep in mind that this woman cheated on her husband within the first two years of marriage. Do you really thinks that she understands what commitment really means? If you finally do get together, won't there be a niggling sensation in the back of your mind about her loyalty to you?
You need to make a decision before it is made for you.
Is it a sexless marriage or does she just have a lower sex drive than you? Does she not want to have sex with you because of the way you treat her? Can she sense that you are no longer attracted to her?
Listen, you can't have both a wife and a girlfriend. Yes, it's a rush and heady when you are with your girlfriend. The sex is wonderful. But neither of you have to face reality when you are with each other.
You get to have partner who is always ready for you; who is not bogged down with the cares of taking care of your children and being married to you. She gets, well we don't really know what she gets out of this (what she told you sounds like the female version of 'my wife doesn't understand me and no, we are not sleeping together'). Keep in mind that this woman cheated on her husband within the first two years of marriage. Do you really thinks that she understands what commitment really means? If you finally do get together, won't there be a niggling sensation in the back of your mind about her loyalty to you?
You need to make a decision before it is made for you.
My wife has had low libido that we have sex twice a year for 10 years. I have been in this relationship for 6 months.
Regarding the cheating later in life, that is not a concern for me. I am well aware of this.
We can have an open relationship, if need be.
Is it a sexless marriage or does she just have a lower sex drive than you? Does she not want to have sex with you because of the way you treat her? Can she sense that you are no longer attracted to her?
Listen, you can't have both a wife and a girlfriend. Yes, it's a rush and heady when you are with your girlfriend. The sex is wonderful. But neither of you have to face reality when you are with each other.
You get to have partner who is always ready for you; who is not bogged down with the cares of taking care of your children and being married to you. She gets, well we don't really know what she gets out of this (what she told you sounds like the female version of 'my wife doesn't understand me and no, we are not sleeping together'). Keep in mind that this woman cheated on her husband within the first two years of marriage. Do you really thinks that she understands what commitment really means? If you finally do get together, won't there be a niggling sensation in the back of your mind about her loyalty to you?
You need to make a decision before it is made for you.
I'm curious as to what the OP means.
Is it a situation where he wants sex 3X a week, and she wants it once a week? Or she wants it once a year?
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