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Nah, I was actually goin somewhere else with that, but I'll stop since the PG-13 warning has once again been issued..
I'm guessing it's more that someone didn't like that it was pointed out to her that sex once a week and pleading period to get out of pleasing a partner is pretty much a great way to drive a husband to look elsewhere and got, shall we say, unhinged at the thought, because I haven't seen anything worse here than a few allusions, vague descriptions, and slang that a 10-year-old would have to ask questions about to understand, anyway.
All I can say is that prudes and frigids should be warned--and that goes for both genders. Most people in marriages or relationships want to get jiggy with it more than once a week. If you act like a prig or spend the bare minimum of time with your partner, don't be surprised when your other half decides you aren't worth the effort anymore.
I have heard this is pretty effective and oftentimes its like an excercise or challenger given to married couples. Its hard to stay mad at someone or not commicate with someoen or be distant with someone when you have to have sex with them so I think it will probably be a good thing for you.
Do you really mean sex everyday for 27 or 28 days or you really going to go the full 30? If so your husband must really love you
If my husband denied me sex or had some excuse I would feel hurt and rejected. But seriously, sex aside, OP, it sounds like you and your hubby may have deeper issues. What led to this wager anyway?
If my husband denied me sex or had some excuse I would feel hurt and rejected. But seriously, sex aside, OP, it sounds like you and your hubby may have deeper issues. What led to this wager anyway?
Yeah, we do have some deeper issues. Nothing divorce-able though in my eyes (infidelity, abuse, etc). He was raised in a home where the woman does all of the housekeeping and child caring. Since I'm a SAHM, obviously, I do the majority of it, but I expect him to do something, at least lift a finger. So, I am resentful of him that he doesn't help out at all around the house or with the kids, not even pick up after himself. And so therefore I don't ever feel like doing it that often because of that. I also have body issues, in that I feel ugly. Two kids (c-sections) have wrecked my body, at least in my eyes, although my husband says differently. So, that's another reason I don't ever want to do it is because I never feel sexy anymore despite losing all the baby weight plus some. My husband also has a major snoring problem, so we sleep in separate bedrooms. That is a whole other issue because he needs to lose weight, but not sleeping in the same bed has really taken a toll on our intimacy. Without that together time after the kids are in bed, it felt like he was more of a roommate than a spouse. All these issues aside though, when we have sex, we have really good sex. So we are hoping that having a lot of really good sex will help us be closer to each other so long as we don't do it like a checklist or a chore.
You like the dirt road huh? Never would have guessed you like to take it like that
I can't look at a man that likes this.lol!
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But seriously, sex aside, OP, it sounds like you and your hubby may have deeper issues. What led to this wager anyway?
