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I really think I've only found true love once and it ended 4 years ago and that ex is long gone with someone else. I've been single for 4 years and have had dates but no new Boyfriends and I don't think I ever will find someone new ever again.
You swear you've had enough, you're ready to give up
On that little lie they call love, then out of the blue clear sky
Fallin' right into your hands, like rain on the desert sand
It's the last thing you had planned out of the blue clear sky.
Here she (he in your case) comes a walkin' talkin' true love
Sayin' I been lookin' for you love
Surprise your new love has arrived
Out of the blue clear sky.
Ain't love a funny thing, one day you're givin' up the dream
And the next you're pickin' out a ring out of the blue clear sky.
(George Strait )
You'll find someone else. The right person is out there you just haven't found him. All that means is all the guys you have seen aren't the right ones. and. You may fall in love a few more times with other guys too.
Last edited by Electrician4you; 01-07-2015 at 10:39 PM..
The romantic notion of lost loves and unrequited love is mostly bogus and unhealthy.
I must disagree! I have been married three times , in all cases I "thought" I was marring the right one, things happen, people change, we move on, but I will never forgot all my wife's , my girlfriends , yes I loved them all, still married to third wife, we both have changed and are considering an open marriage. ( after 37years). Wish I was younger, she would be history, actually nothing wrong with that . I cherish all the memories , and I do think about the ones that got away....... There is an old saying " I never wanted the one I got, I never got the one I wanted" I like that line, guess I am the hopeless romantic.......Strange after all the years I still think there is another out there, I keep looking, mostly in my mind......
I think your premise "true love happens only once" can't be true since some people find another love just as true after being widowed. Cherish the memories of the one you loved and still love, but then purpose to move forward and let the past go because anyone living in the past will never experience the glory of the present. Easier said than done, I know - but you have to choose to go forward. Surely you realize there are many souls just as beautiful as his that you've not yet met.
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