I have bouts of erratic behavior, will that make me undatable? (date, women)

[A Gambler on the CTA]

Sometimes I act, you know, a little crazy. My friends and family knows about this, lol. They just cope by withdrawing, when they know I'm going off the rails. I'm wondering if anyone will put up with this in a long term relationship.

I'm not a "dangerous" kind of crazy, by the way. I don't slit my wrists or defecalize on people's property. I'm more of an "annoying" kind of crazy. Impulsive and a little manic.

[kimbo28]

Undateable? No. People will date you. Finding a meaningful, long term relationship may prove to be more challenging if you don't reign in the crazy though.

[BirdieBelle]

Have you been to a doctor about it? Gotten a diagnosis?

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by A Gambler on the CTA

Sometimes I act, you know, a little crazy. My friends and family knows about this, lol. They just cope by withdrawing, when they know I'm going off the rails. I'm wondering if anyone will put up with this in a long term relationship.

I'm not a "dangerous" kind of crazy, by the way. I don't slit my wrists or defecalize on people's property. I'm more of an "annoying" kind of crazy. Impulsive and a little manic.

So...what's an example of the crazy things that you do?

[Djuna]

Nope, I don't date crazy whether it's a big crazy or a little crazy. I like predictability and reliability.

[monumentus]

The mass of people in the world who are various levels of spectrum Bi-Polar - and are in perfectly functional relationships - would appear to me to answer the OPs question before it was even asked.

Thats is even before you unpack what it even means to have "bouts of erratic behaviour" as if most people didn't. People in general are erratic at the best of times.

[rosebyanothername]

OP, some examples of your behavior would be helpful. Someone's "crazy" may be another person's "sane".

[OvernightDelivery]

Originally Posted by A Gambler on the CTA

Sometimes I act, you know, a little crazy. My friends and family knows about this, lol. They just cope by withdrawing, when they know I'm going off the rails. I'm wondering if anyone will put up with this in a long term relationship.

I'm not a "dangerous" kind of crazy, by the way. I don't slit my wrists or defecalize on people's property. I'm more of an "annoying" kind of crazy. Impulsive and a little manic.

If you like the kind who like crazy. You might have limited choices.

[CarbonCountyLiving]

Depends on your hot:crazy ratio.

Let's not pretend that only applies to women.

[ellie]

Crazy can be a PITA.