I Respect You When it Comes to Sex (man, loving, cheat)
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This guy says he isn't a cheater and he doesn't like cheaters. So I think he is being sincere about what he told me.
Then you trust him and that is a good thing. No one on here knows this man. You are the one who has been with him and know him. You could spend so much of your time second guessing him and having doubts. It is refreshing to hear you are going to believe him until he gives you reason not to.
For people who don't believe that men will wait very long, I have a story.
My best friend met a guy at a bar in Dec 2013 when she was 19 (virgin). He's 23, not a virgin. My friend is very religious, and really wants to save herself until she's married. She told him about her views on sex pretty early on in the relationship (1 month) and he's stuck around ever since! They have a bit of a long distance situation though, she's in school up in Boston and he's in NY. (4 hours apart during school season)
The point is, they're doing well. He's mentioned waiting for marriage for her. I want to be a braidsmaid
A very religious 19 year-old virgin in a bar, huh? yeah, OK
Who wants to be with, let alone marry, a porn star? I sure as heck don’t. It would seem the quality of the sex act especially that first time, is of more importance than the love, communication and emotional commitment that is certainly nonexistent in porn movies. If you want a porn star go for it. I will wait for the woman who waited for me.
Who wants to be with, let alone marry, a porn star? I sure as heck don’t. It would seem the quality of the sex act especially that first time, is of more importance than the love, communication and emotional commitment that is certainly nonexistent in porn movies. If you want a porn star go for it. I will wait for the woman who waited for me.
I don't think you understood the reference but anyway. If she wants to wait that's fine with me. It's her perogative. But she had guys waiting for years at least that's what she said. If those guys weren't good enough why did she keep them on the side. Why not drop them and keep looking for Mr Right instead of Mr Right Now?
She needs to look in places where she only finds people with her exact religious beliefs. And even then guys are gonna get tired of waiting and if they want to start a family they sure as hell aren't gonna wait years before she decides they are the right one.
For people who don't believe that men will wait very long, I have a story.
My best friend met a guy at a bar in Dec 2013 when she was 19 (virgin). He's 23, not a virgin. My friend is very religious, and really wants to save herself until she's married. She told him about her views on sex pretty early on in the relationship (1 month) and he's stuck around ever since! They have a bit of a long distance situation though, she's in school up in Boston and he's in NY. (4 hours apart during school season)
The point is, they're doing well. He's mentioned waiting for marriage for her. I want to be a braidsmaid
LOL, you actually believe he's in a LDR and not sleeping around on the side...OMG you are so funny...and your friend is really naive.
LOL, you actually believe he's in a LDR and not sleeping around on the side...OMG you are so funny...and your friend is really naive.
Yeah I don't think so. Maybe, but I don't know. I've met him quite a few times and I think he's very pleasant. He's in love with her, he knows all of us (meaning her friends) and he's close with her family too. He goes to church with her, and he visits often.
I would be shocked if he was cheating. My friend is smart, wealthy and absolutely stunning. Overall great person, so I have positive hopes for her.
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Originally Posted by alaskandaisy
Yeah I don't think so. Maybe, but I don't know. I've met him quite a few times and I think he's very pleasant. He's in love with her, he knows all of us (meaning her friends) and he's close with her family too. He goes to church with her, and he visits often.
I would be shocked if he was cheating. My friend is smart, wealthy and absolutely stunning. Overall great person, so I have positive hopes for her.
Be prepared to be shocked. A 23 yo dude isn't going to not be having sex unless he has zero choice in it. His being in love with her, going to church, etc has nothing to do with it.
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yeah, OK
