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Originally Posted by AnneCA
I felt very safe with him up until that moment. It shocked me to the core because it is NOT like him. I trusted him with my life. That is why I am trying to understand if this was just a once in a blue moon incident, or if this is part of his personality that just came to light after that wedding night, a part I didn't know about for 3 years.
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Three years is often when the mask starts to slip. It's long enough to have some water under the bridge and start taking someone for granted, like, "She already invested time in me, so she's not going to leave if I'm an ahole."
And this is how it starts. A shove becomes a slap. A slap becomes a punch. A punch becomes a kick. A kick becomes a beat-down. A beat-down becomes you in the hospital.
Or dead.
I wouldn't stick around. I'd break up with him, whether it's 3 months, 3 years, or 3 decades. I'm a pretty forgiving person (too forgiving, actually, but I'm working on that), but violence represents a line that once crossed, there's no going back.