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Old 04-29-2015, 08:19 PM
 
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Ok, I do get occasional dates. However, I have not had sex in more than a year (almost a year and half) and I am a male in his 20s. Do you guys think this is bad or sad? Problem is, I am craving it less and less and just dont get my hopes about it high at all anymore. Its like now it would be funny if it would happen... I guess.

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Old 04-29-2015, 08:23 PM
 
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noone cares

your lack of sex has no bearing on our lives

if the drought bothers you, i suggest you go get wet

water is free and abundant these days
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Old 04-29-2015, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Ok, I do get occasional dates. However, I have not had sex in more than a year (almost a year and half) and I am a male in his 20s. Do you guys think this is bad or sad? Problem is, I am craving it less and less and just dont get my hopes about it high at all anymore. Its like now it would be funny if it would happen... I guess.

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It really doesn't matter if we think it's bad or sad. All that matters is what you think.
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:00 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Ok, I do get occasional dates. However, I have not had sex in more than a year (almost a year and half) and I am a male in his 20s. Do you guys think this is bad or sad? Problem is, I am craving it less and less and just dont get my hopes about it high at all anymore. Its like now it would be funny if it would happen... I guess.

Discuss. Interested about HONEST OPINIONS.
Why are men so self-conscious about this stuff? Why does it matter? How would anyone know, anyway? I don't understand what the concern is.
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:09 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I don't think people really care.

Just keep it to yourself. It's your business.
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:11 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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If you don't like it, change it.
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:15 PM
 
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Dude, it's normal. Dry spells happen. Get used to it, because you have a lot of years ahead of you potentially with dry spells happening. In the meantime, what have you been doing to meet women? Do whatever you need to do to be around women--try some group activities of different kinds, whatever interests you, and don't be shy. Put yourself out there. It'll happen if you give it a chance.
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:25 PM
 
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You sound perfectly normal to me. Most people stop missing it after a while.

Of course, then when you have it, you'll be like, "Oh, wow, I missed this after all. How did I not want this?"

But after six months or so, most people stop climbing walls.
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Old 04-29-2015, 09:43 PM
 
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I have notified the man card police of this thread.
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