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Hi everyone! So, I am talking to this guy, and we became close. Whenever he's drunk, he always says he wants to date me, but when he's sober he's just normal with me. Also, when he's drunk he says "If any guy has sex with you, they're done." He says that a lot, and he grabs and touches my hand a lot. When he was drunk, he said to me "Ashley I want you to be my girlfriend. I want to date you." I say "Ok." Because I always think he's gonna forget the next day, and then he's like "No, you won't. You won't date me. You won't be my girlfriend." I said "Yeah I will." he said "No, you won't go out with me."
Then another time he said to my friend in front of me "I would date Ashley in two seconds, she's a really good girl." He always somehow, mentions dating with me when he's drunk, but when he's sober he acts normal, and friendly with me. He doesn't act flirty, and he even says to me when he's sober "I am done with dating. I don't believe in love, I got hurt way too many times, and I was in love, and I am scared of women because of it." When he's sober he pretty much says he'll never date anyone, so it confuses me. A lot of people say he really likes me, and I was upset and depressed about my one friend, and he said "I really care about you, everything you feel, I feel too. I am so sorry you're going through this. I wish there was something I could do." Then he shows up at my house unexpectedly to see how I am. So, I don't know. Does it sound like a guy who is shy? Or is he just scared of women? Or is he BSing me? What do you think? Does he want to date me?
Last edited by PolarOpposite; 05-09-2015 at 08:26 PM..
I would run away, very fast, from someone who only says they want to be with me when they are drunk. Imagine how it would be if you were really with someone so black and white. Recipe for disaster IMO
I would run away, very fast, from someone who only says they want to be with me when they are drunk. Imagine how it would be if you were really with someone so black and white. Recipe for disaster IMO
Indeed...don't trust anyone who cannot hold their booze.
Hi everyone! So, I am talking to this guy, and we became close. Whenever he's drunk, he always says he wants to date me, but when he's sober he's just normal with me. Also, when he's drunk he says "If any guy has sex with you, they're done." He says that a lot, and he grabs and touches my hand a lot. When he was drunk, he said to me "Ashley I want you to be my girlfriend. I want to date you." I say "Ok." Because I always think he's gonna forget the next day, and then he's like "No, you won't. You won't date me. You won't be my girlfriend." I said "Yeah I will." he said "No, you won't go out with me."
Then another time he said to my friend in front of me "I would date Ashley in two seconds, she's a really good girl." He always somehow, mentions dating with me when he's drunk, but when he's sober he acts normal, and friendly with me. He doesn't act flirty, and he even says to me when he's sober "I am done with dating. I don't believe in love, I got hurt way too many times, and I was in love, and I am scared of women because of it." When he's sober he pretty much says he'll never date anyone, so it confuses me. A lot of people say he really likes me, and I was upset and depressed about my one friend, and he said "I really care about you, everything you feel, I feel too. I am so sorry you're going through this. I wish there was something I could do." Then he shows up at my house unexpectedly to see how I am. So, I don't know. Does it sound like a guy who is shy? Or is he just scared of women? Or is he BSing me? What do you think? Does he want to date me?
You should really focus on something besides finding a date or finding out if someone wants to date you.
In my experience when I was dating, if someone wanted to date me they asked me. They didn't play games or mince words. They asked me if I would like to go out, it is that simple.
Try to kiss him when he's not drunk.
The way he will react if you do that will be the real answer
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