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I know men are visual and it's probably too late to get his attention now, when he most likely is attracted to another girl in the office, more than he is attracted to me.
For a short while I thought he did like me, but then he he stopped talking to me and I've seen him talking to the other girls and being friendly with them, and then acting like I don't exist.
I'm not entirely sure how men's minds work. Are they just interested in you until something prettier comes around?
Last edited by amber_rae; 05-16-2015 at 01:46 PM..
I know men are visual and it's probably too late to get his attention now, when he most likely is attracted to another girl in the office, more than he is attracted to me.
For a short while I thought he did like me, but then he he stopped talking to me and I've seen him talking to the other girls and being friendly with them, and then acting like I don't exist.
I'm not entirely sure how men's minds work. Are they just interested in you until something prettier comes around?
If he hasn't noticed you by now, why TRY so hard? Wouldn't you want to be with someone who is really into you, not someone you had to convince to like you?
If he hasn't noticed you by now, why TRY so hard? Wouldn't you want to be with someone who is really into you, not someone you had to convince to like you?
I like him. And I thought we had chemistry and I thought he may have liked me. But then he began to act like I didn't exist and I would see him be friendly with the other women. I don't understand it.
I like him. And I thought we had chemistry and I thought he may have liked me. But then he began to act like I didn't exist and I would see him be friendly with the other women. I don't understand it.
You may never understand it.
But don't worry about it. His acting like you don't exist after being friendly to you says enough about his character that you should not give him one more minute of thought.
I like him. And I thought we had chemistry and I thought he may have liked me. But then he began to act like I didn't exist and I would see him be friendly with the other women. I don't understand it.
OP:
There is much more than chemistry in any type of dating relationship.
Not to be too harsh, but if he was interested in you, he wouldn't be acting like you don't exist.
Be thankful because you have dodged a bullet here. Work and play don't mix. Attempting to get him to notice you at work is unprofessional at best. Follow the good advice given here--don't mix work and relationships.
Not every guy or gal that is nice to you wants to sleep with you. Sometimes they just have common courtesy.
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