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View Poll Results: Men, Do You Get Rejected By Most Women You Ask Out ?
YES 69 58.47%
NO 49 41.53%
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Old 05-14-2011, 07:22 PM
 
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When you approach women, do you get rejected more times than not ?
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Old 05-14-2011, 07:29 PM
 
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I would say roughly around 100% of the time
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Old 05-14-2011, 08:04 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Every overture I have made face to face has been denied. Every date I've been on has been via the internet (sadly). One time, however, a girl essentially asked me out.
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Old 05-14-2011, 08:05 PM
 
Location: The Southeast
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I have approached women and engaged a conversation with them, I haven't ask any out because I just have not been that attracted to them.
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Old 05-14-2011, 08:12 PM
 
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Every overture I have made face to face has been denied. Every date I've been on has been via the internet (sadly). One time, however, a girl essentially asked me out.
Were you physically attracted to the girl who you asked out ?
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Old 05-14-2011, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Were you physically attracted to the girl who you asked out ?
Yeah, she was a cute girl. It went nowhere after our date. I was too shy for her taste. That was the first genuine date I had ever been on and I was so nervous.
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Old 05-14-2011, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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No, but I don't ask someone out unless I think that I have a decent chance, otherwise it's just wasted effort.
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Old 05-14-2011, 09:59 PM
 
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I would say roughly around 100% of the time

What is the most common reason they give you when they turn you down ?

I have gotten everything from "Ewwww you are ugly", "You are not my type", "I already have a boyfriend", "I don't date outside of my race", "I am a lesbian", "You are too young for me" and "You are too old for me".
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Old 05-14-2011, 10:40 PM
 
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What is the most common reason they give you when they turn you down ?

I have gotten everything from "Ewwww you are ugly", "You are not my type", "I already have a boyfriend", "I don't date outside of my race", "I am a lesbian", "You are too young for me" and "You are too old for me".
Too be honest im very afraid of rejection in my 30 years i have only approached a handful of women..most excuses are that they are seeing somebody or im a nice guy but im not their type..

Being shot down harshly like you stated is one of the reasons i fear approaching random women..Plus more rejection reaffirms to me im not attractive to women and puts me in a even deeper shell..
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Old 05-15-2011, 12:43 AM
 
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Yes, but that's because I ask alot.

You gatta play the odds.

I date as much as I have interest/Money to do so, if not more.
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