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Well, she's gone...
She says she loves me but not sure that it's gonna work out between us. Says that she's "giving me time" to decide "what my intentions are". We'd been arguing on and off the past week. Obviously, my intentions are no more drama! If that means it's over, oh, well.
Lol! You should ask her what her true intentions are.
I'm nosy: did she ever say what her 17 year old was supposed to do when she moved in with you?
I started seeing someone back in April...
There is chemistry, but we have differences of opinion. She has two sons (20 & 17). Anyway, once our relationship was established, she began to spend more time at my place...Now, I didn't realize it at first (my fault), but her intention was to move in with me. I objected to this for the following reasons:
1) Her sons are still at home - the older son is now home from college. I feel that her son's should be a priority and they are still too young to be without their mom
2) I live in a small apt. There is just not enough room for my and her things.
3) I'm divorced a year now; I've become accustomed to living alone.
We talked last night about 1 and 2. She stated that if she can't live with me, she can't be with me! I have tried to compromise with her, saying that she's welcome anytime, day or night. I told her that I love her, but given the circumstances, it's just not possible for her to live with me at this time. She's packing up and going back home. And ending our relationship!
So, am I the bad guy?
You're not the bad guy, but sounds like you're not that into her.
Lol! You should ask her what her true intentions are.
I'm nosy: did she ever say what her 17 year old was supposed to do when she moved in with you?
Apparently the 17 (now 18) yo is supposedly studying to become a firefighter. Both boys are home for the summer and they would be staying at home (her home).
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