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Originally Posted by Sonic_Spork
The logic is that if a younger guy wants more than just sex, he will want a woman who can give him children.
A woman in her 30's or 40's is often past that point where they are willing to make babies with ya, even if they are capable, they usually aren't interested at that age.
Huh, mid 30s is where women seem to actually become interested in having children. 33 on.
Because they think that younger men just want sex . Its funny how that works. They never assume that when an older guy approaches them that it is all about sex. People stereotype too much.
And for some women that's a non-issue. I can tell you right now that, if the unexpected happened and I was back on the market, sex is all I'd want, too.
And for some women that's a non-issue. I can tell you right now that, if the unexpected happened and I was back on the market, sex is all I'd want, too.
I think, if anything, it's the young ones who are offended when I reject them.
I had one (then 28) on OKC tell me "it sucks your prejudice" when I declined to date him. It wasn't so much his age I had a problem with as I did with his apparent inability to write a complete sentence. I'm back on the site, he's now 29 and messaged me again.
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Originally Posted by ninersfan82
Please do tell.....I think most women get offended by it. Lots of women do not seem to be into much younger men (10+ years age difference)
It usually ends in disappointment for both of us when it's revealed he's 25 and I'm 41.
Offended?? No way! He either thinks I'm his age or thinks I'm a MILF; both are equally flattering. The awkward part is finding a way to work into it into the conversation that I'm married and pushing 40, without crushing his ego.
Well, I just checked out your pic, and there's really no gettin' around it, Math: you ARE a MILF! LOL
Yeah, enjoy the flattery and take it as a comp, which it is. Being a Community College baseball coach and p/t/ teacher I'm around young lads between the ages of 19 and 25 all the time. And yeah, I DO always hear them talking about hot older women. Don't worry about bruising their egos, that's not likely to happen, kids that age are pretty resilient. You can even have fun and flirt with them a little, AFTER you tell em' you're married. Soak it up! Believe, a lot of these kids act more studly thane they are. If you, as a MILF, just flirt with him a bit but shut him down on it going any further, you STILL make his day.
"Dude, I was talking to this totally HOT MILF at Starbucks today! She told me she was married, and she wouldn't go out with me, but, like, I could still TOTALLY tell she was into me!"
Also, the best sex I ever had was with the oldest partner I've yet had. He was 48 to my 36. I've mentioned before...typical lame stuff guys throw down in bed bears a resemblance to what they've always watched on the internet. That which is optimal for a camera angle, may not be optimal for your lady partner. I'm not saying that the younger ones were universally bad, I'm just saying I didn't know what "Whoa! That was amazing!" felt like until I was with someone a bit older.
Was talking to another man not long ago, seems he completely understands what I want, and it aligns pretty well with what he's into. He's 49. Another promising potential partner in crime, that I've spoken to a few times, is 53.
Got a message on ok stupid today from a 26 year old with a chubby babyface, which said, "Pick me!" Wtf are you, a pokemon? No.
I'm a 23 year old grad student finishing up my degree in a year, and approaching someone who is 28. Develop a probability distribution function describing my chances of success. Explain your reasoning.
A little weirded out.Had a 21 yr old hit on me and I'm 38. I told him my son is only 8 years younger than you. Kind of weird.
Last edited by Raena77; 09-09-2015 at 05:26 PM..
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