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This man is honest, and in my book, that is a quality. I find it funny women who fall for some of the biggest liars and scumbags and later complain how they wish they had an honest man.
Now that I agree with. Often times people allow themselves to be used because they don't pick up on, or outright ignore, the subtle clues to who people really are at their core. If you drop the starry-eyed bull**** and pay close enough attention to body language and non-verbal cues, you will learn a lot about a person by what they don't say. Fortunately for the OP, the man in question made no pretenses about his intentions; as skeevy as it may be to most women, at the very least he was honest. I value brutal honesty a lot more than niceties.
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Repulsive? How is that repulsive, the guy is honest. A liar and scumbag would sweet talk a woman and fill her mind with BS until he gets what he wants then dump her like a sack of potatoes. Which is better?
This douchebag didn't even offer flowers or a handshake, just a quick one up the a**. Sounds like a real peach.
Now that I agree with. Often times people allow themselves to be used because they don't pick up on, or outright ignore, the subtle clues to who people really are at their core. If you drop the starry-eyed bull**** and pay close enough attention to body language and non-verbal cues, you will learn a lot about a person by what they don't say. Fortunately for the OP, the man in question made no pretenses about his intentions; as skeevy as it may be to most women, at the very least he was honest.
That's why guys and gals that are hot get a pass. Ultimately, the person accepting the behavior either feels the person is out of their league, or that's the person they're entitled to having. People still want honest, but they want honest wrapped in the package they desire.
I'm not saying that all attractive people have a dishonest streak, but attractive people can get away with more. Just like with the woman I'm seeing now. I share a bed with her and her poodle on occasion. It's because I like her and don't mind the poodle. I've told other women that I would prefer to not sleep with animals in the bed. It's all about how you feel about a person, which is why some people get passes that another person doesn't.
It's just life and how attraction works.
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I will give him credit for being honest. However, there is a time and a place. This is obviously not something you bring up before you've even met in person. It sounds to me like this guy has little if any dating experience and probably watches a lot of porn.
I don't really see too much of a problem with it other than the OP wasn't really game to have fun on the first date.
My girl and I met on Tinder over 6 months ago. We clicked very well & topics of conversation became sexual. That escalated into a lot of sexting & when we did finally meetup, we did it on the first date. We had great physical chemistry for sure but then came to fins we had tons of things in common and just really bonded together.
This man is honest, and in my book, that is a quality. I find it funny women who fall for some of the biggest liars and scumbags and later complain how they wish they had an honest man.
Was he being "honest" in the sense you meant it or was he just laying it on the line to several women at the same time, ready to jump toward the first one that agreed? Of course we'll never know, but for myself I wouldn't consider that he was being honest. I would see him as being intentionally disrespectful and vulgar because the reaction of the person he was blowing that filth all over would tell him if he was wasting his time or not.
If I were you I would cancel. Not because I mind sex on the first date, but because it appears that he's so desperate for sex that he'll do it with you on the first date not because he likes and is attracted to YOU specifically, but because he's just looking for sex (and probably would go for it, with anyone). If you were looking just for a hook-up to satisfy your needs/desires, then this could be a mutual agreement. But it sounds like you actually want a real, satisfying date, and his standards are much lower. Yes, i would cancel.
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Originally Posted by MissmamaAnnie
I have been talking to this guy that I met last week. He gave me his number and I decided to text him to see what's up. However, we are meeting up today. I asked him what we are doing yesterday and he just said we will figure it out.
Then he suggested we have a little fun when we meet. He started asking me what things I like doing. I didn't know what he was talking about so I asked him to be more specific. He then said sex and started explaining in graphic detail what he wants to do in bed. He kept asking sexual questions and if I want to try Mod cut.
I told him that I want to meet and hangout for bit to see then see where the night leads us. He said ,sure its up to me. I am just not sure at this point, I was open to get to know each other first and it leads to sex then great, not just hook up I don't want to feel like piece of meat
That's why guys and gals that are hot get a pass. Ultimately, the person accepting the behavior either feels the person is out of their league, or that's the person they're entitled to having. People still want honest, but they want honest wrapped in the package they desire.
I'm not saying that all attractive people have a dishonest streak, but attractive people can get away with more. Just like with the woman I'm seeing now. I share a bed with her and her poodle on occasion. It's because I like her and don't mind the poodle. I've told other women that I would prefer to not sleep with animals in the bed. It's all about how you feel about a person, which is why some people get passes that another person doesn't.
It's just how it's stated. The person feels entitled to having the person they desire. Like the heavy set guy who only wants to date pin up models. He feels entitled to having what he desires, because it's what he desires, and he has to live with that decision. Not anyone else.
It's just how it's stated. The person feels entitled to having the person they desire. Like the heavy set guy who only wants to date pin up models. He feels entitled to having what he desires, because it's what he desires, and he has to live with that decision. Not anyone else.
Ok..thank you for clarifying. "Entitled" is a word expressed very often this day and age....usually applied to the younger Generation.
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I don't want to feel like piece of meat