Getting A Vasectomy/Giving Up On Women (regret, close, dependent)
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I am sure glad that I didn't stand on some kind of outmoded sense of propriety and reject her for having more experience. I would have missed out on a wonderful life partner.
I wonder how many of those guys end up into their mid-30s and beyond alone because of their (double) standards. Probably more than a few.
Seems like jealousy, to me, because if they could have that kind of sex, they'd be too busy doing it to worry about it!
I've always hated that sex from women is viewed as some sort of a commodity. You know, women want and enjoy it too, right? When a man sleeps with a woman, he isn't getting all the gain, she's having a great experience also.
Sure, I could spell it out in evolutionary biology terms about the "Ha, ha, I might have planted a baby and now I'm outta here!" thing, but in today's society where most people having sex for its own purpose are using protection, and even if he manages to sow an oat, she can get him for support if she's got his real name and such...and there is always abortion if it comes all the way to that.
Long story short, that lizard brain non-logic just doesn't apply no more. And study after study has shown that women enjoy sex, including promiscuous sex and casual sex and kinky sex and so on and so forth, just as much as men if not more so. So how is it a win for the guy and a lose for the gal when they both hop in the sack and get it on?
I find this true, from my own observation. We're living in a P-Renaissance. A lot of women are serving it up on a sliver platter for next to nothing these days.
Yup.
It's too easy. It isn't a problem if the women serving it up get the desired outcome. Some do, if they really are just looking to f*** but then there are those that do it and then create threads asking why the guy hit it or quit it, why they can't get an fwb to be there boyfriend, why men think they are disposable, or why they can't get their boyfriend to propose or commit while meanwhile their essentially playing the role of the wife without being one.
The side effect is the loads of men that are not willing to wait for sex, feel entitled to sleep with women that barely know them, and whom don't have the same incentive to seek a relationship or commitment. It also breeds men that are lazy and don't want to invest in seeking the right relationships-why bother when it's so easy to get everything else without doing much.
I just sharpened my scissors today, if that's helps. I also have a hole punch that I use for crafty crap. It might work for vasectomies.
FWIW a very small number of men will suffer lingering discomfort following a vasectomy. Apparently I'm one of the lucky few.
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