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Old 10-28-2015, 06:53 AM
 
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We were married for 7 years, I think she was cheating on me, that doesn't make any sense to me and i'm still trying to cope with that. She just got engaged to an ex boyfriend, she dated this guy before me!
I feel cheated, betrayed!
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Old 10-28-2015, 06:58 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm sure you do!
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Old 10-28-2015, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Texas
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How are you cheated/betrayed if she got engaged AFTER your divorce was finalized?
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:06 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma USA
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End of chapter. Turn the page.

You are divorced.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:09 AM
 
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That darn '7 year itch.'

Well, good for her.

Time to move on Bro. It's over.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:11 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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You are divorced. Move on. It doesn't matter what she does with her life moving forward.

Focus on yourself and rebuilding a new life.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:12 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Dude, you should be celebrating shes out of your life! seriously!
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:20 AM
 
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Sorry to say that if she is already engaged, she was probably cheating on you with him. She has shown you who she is, so you need to move on. I realize that that is easier said than done. If you want some advice on dealing with the pain of infidelity (as well as other opinions about whether she was cheating on you), google Surviving Infidelity dot com. (I don't know if it is OK to post a link to the site.) The people there are very sympathetic and will help you find ways to cope with your ex-wife's betrayal.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:24 AM
 
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No matter how pretty, there's always someone out there tired of her ****. That being said, you were the one third of the ****. It is a kick in the teeth.

Life goes on. Life is better without her.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:25 AM
 
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Was the divorce not enough of a sign for you to realize she was moving on?
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