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Old 11-18-2015, 08:53 AM
 
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I think 10 years both ways is ok, but either scenario is unlikely.
How did you come up with that number? Seems extremely short sighted and personal. As long as you are dealing with two consenting adults, let me assure you, any number is ok both ways.
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Old 11-18-2015, 08:59 AM
 
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I like older guys, always have.

My last parter was 25 years my senior. We were together 8 years. My current partner is 19 years older. We've been together going on 14 months.

I never had an issue being able to "relate" to either one of these guys due to our respective ages. Actually, the only "difference" I felt with my prior partner was that he was Canadian and I American. For whatever reason, THAT became a slight bone of contention between us.
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Old 11-18-2015, 09:03 AM
 
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How did you come up with that number? Seems extremely short sighted and personal. As long as you are dealing with two consenting adults, let me assure you, any number is ok both ways.
Well, I could be interested in a guy 10 years younger, but I'd assume he'd just want a fling. And it's not impossible, but rare that I'd be interested in a man 10 years older.
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Old 11-18-2015, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Tallinn, Estonia (EU) / Ewa Beach, HI
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i had a sexual relationship with a teacher from ages 13 to 15. she was 39 to 41. it was pretty platonic and we we're both in it for the pleasure, nothing more. i mean, of course, we would talk also or go driving in her car or go shopping or whatever but most of the time, it was about sex.

right now, i am dating a girl that is 13 years younger than me. she is extremely intelligent and wise beyond her years. her body also matured very early, so she looks older than her peers. when we're together, most people think we are 1-3 yrs apart in age, at most, but thats mostly from me looking extremely younger, than i am. i literally have a babyface and get asked for ID when buying smokes.
our relationship is both very much mental in that we enjoy each others company and have lots to talk about and much in common and physical in the sense that we both like to just cuddle up with each other, we enjoy long passionate kissing sessions etc. since i have to use daily medication that drastically decreases my libido, i'm not that into sex nowadays. she also likes kissing/cuddling way more than the actual sex itself, although she has only had one partner before me and that guy was a virgin as well. she does enjoy oral sex, though, but then again, i havent met a woman that didnt, yet. i believe it's the same for men (unless you have a low libido/are asexual)
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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i had a sexual relationship with a teacher from ages 13 to 15. she was 39 to 41. it was pretty platonic and we we're both in it for the pleasure, nothing more. i mean, of course, we would talk also or go driving in her car or go shopping or whatever but most of the time, it was about sex.

right now, i am dating a girl that is 13 years younger than me. she is extremely intelligent and wise beyond her years. her body also matured very early, so she looks older than her peers. when we're together, most people think we are 1-3 yrs apart in age, at most, but thats mostly from me looking extremely younger, than i am. i literally have a babyface and get asked for ID when buying smokes.
our relationship is mostly mental and very much physical in the sense that we both like to just cuddle up with each other, we enjoy long kissing sessions etc. since i have to use daily medication that drastically decreases my libido, i'm not that into sex nowadays. she also likes kissing/cuddling way more than the actual sex itself, although she has only had one partner before me and that guy was a virgin as well. she does enjoy oral sex, though, but then again, i havent met a woman that didnt, yet. i believe it's the same for men (unless you have a low libido/are asexual)
And how old is this girl that you are dating?

And thank you for letting us know that she enjoys oral sex even though that was totally unnecessary.
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:10 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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And how old is this girl that you are dating?

And thank you for letting us know that she enjoys oral sex even though that was totally unnecessary.
And that his old teacher was a paedophile LOL
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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And that his old teacher was a paedophile LOL
I know. I'm so glad that I learned about someone that belongs in jail.
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:16 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I know. I'm so glad that I learned about someone that belongs in jail.
Indeed!!!

I'm currently waiting for cab to go out tonight, what a absolutely wonderful way to start the night LOL
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Tallinn, Estonia (EU) / Ewa Beach, HI
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uhm, check my location, not everyone lives in a country where you can buy EVERY illegal drug you can imagine and alcohol is legal from age 21.

over here, sexual relationships are legal from age 14. alcohol/cigarettes from 18.
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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uhm, check my location, not everyone lives in a country where you can buy EVERY illegal drug you can imagine and alcohol is legal from age 21.

over here, sexual relationships are legal from age 14. alcohol/cigarettes from 18.
So, she's 14?
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