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Your posts are really hard to read. Please learn how to punctuate.
You are "best friends" with this girl and "wouldn't mind her being with somebody," but you get jealous and mad when she actually does, and you're considering not being friends anymore because she doesn't want to have sex with you. Is that what "best friends" means to you? Is that even a plain old "friend"?
If you don't want to be friends with someone, don't hang around. But "friend zone" is just a term people came up with to describe their righteous indignation that someone didn't want to go out with them.
So true.
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Originally Posted by Opin_Yunated
I don't disagree.
My point was that the person who is placing the other person in friend zone usually has motives as well.
Yes there are many reasons why someone would "place" you there. Some I can think of: they actually like you but don't see a relationship with you due to lack of chemistry or they can't see you fitting in with their family and friends or they like you and think they might want to date you but want to take it very slowly. Or if they have dated you, they're trying to slow it way down.
Oh and I might add that I was married for 23 years to a man that had been my friend for 7 years before we started dating. We met at 17 and hung out a lot. I never knew that he had romantic interest in me until he told me when we were 24.
what if you guys went out before for a min and it didn't work it out but now you guys are friends but she constantly tells you about her time with other dudes is that a friendzone?
That's friendzone level 9000. Next thing you know, she'll be throwing her bra in with your laundry
The word is indeed "wack," not "whack." You were correct.
I don't understand the whole friendzone thing. Seems to come from people who can't handle being rejected and want to blame someone else for their bruised ego.
If a woman doesn't return your feelings she must just want to keep you around to make herself feel good, right? God forbid she just really like having you as a friend. Is your opinion of yourself so low that you can't believe you're good company?
Some of my best friendships have come from guys who initially expressed interest in me. Weird how maturity works that way.
I now understand where men are coming from. Because they don't value women they don't find attractive romantically and sexually(excluding their mom and other blood relatives), they assume women are the same. Like they think the only reason a women would want a man around is for ego boost or sex. It is really weird, and helps me understand this male concept(women use it too, but it is rarely used by women) of the "friend-zone."
So This Girl Who I went out with before are now best friends and I don't mind it but I still have feelings for her She's a Virgin and she tells me about how she was at this dudes house and she kissed him and how he started taking off his clothes and getting naked in front her here's the craziest part though they weren't even together. like then she had the nerve to say she dont know why he did it hmmm... maybe its because you was kissing him while you was drinking and gave him the thought that you wanted to do it, things like this gets me all angry & jealous because i actually care for her and dont want her leading him on, but I never show it and i have to pretend it doesnt bother me.I feel like sometimes I'm being tortured because I still like her, it just hurts when you see everybody get second chances but you. should I stick it out and stay or tell her I can't do it anymore and leave?? And if so should I be upfront and tell her why I'm leaving or just dip?
You have to play the game, man.
Generally, I've found that the majority of the time when I'm rejected, it's because I didn't approach the situation correctly.
Her response will change once you change your behavior.
I recommend cutting off contact with her completely. I'd be willing to bet that she'll contact you seemingly out of the blue a few months after you do that.
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