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Personally, my sex drive is low for a 26 year old man. Haven't had sex in 5 months and haven't pursued it since. I have dated a woman with high sex drives and it had it's positives. But then the cons set in which made me end things. I was too tired all the time and couldn't focus on class nor work because she wanted it 24/7. It got to the point where I broke it off so that she could find a man with the same libido because I couldn't keep up with her.
Sounds great! So long as the guy doesn't deliberately nix a big party just to "test" her to see what is more important to her and if she can be happy with just his company hanging around the house. And so long as he doesn't attract her into the relationship by claiming to be really into parties and going to every one with bells on while he's courting her then later reveal he's not into parties that often.
Sure....but ya know what? That doesn't apply just to sex but to EVERY aspect of the relationship. And that's why you don't get married to someone after a month while they're still "on their best behavior". And maybe sex is really great for the first few months and then he turns into wham bam thank ya ma'am and she's not into that....yeah, it works in a lot of different ways for both men and women.
Personally, my sex drive is low for a 26 year old man. Haven't had sex in 5 months and haven't pursued it since. I have dated a woman with high sex drives and it had it's positives. But then the cons set in which made me end things. I was too tired all the time and couldn't focus on class nor work because she wanted it 24/7. It got to the point where I broke it off so that she could find a man with the same libido because I couldn't keep up with her.
Thanks for speaking up - it's great to see things are not quite so quite so one-sided as people seem to think and that in fact there ARE some things in common across the sexes.
Thanks for speaking up - it's great to see things are not quite so quite so one-sided as people seem to think and that in fact there ARE some things in common across the sexes.
She was a nice woman and the sex was good but when it gets to a point when you're dozing off at work and while watching your infant sister that's not good. Lol.
I've seen this on threads for both men and women. It seems some are not able to differentiate between someone treating you well and someone with ulterior motives.
Perhaps it would help to sit down and think how a healthy relationship would be, what you want to receive, what you want to give. Only tolerate behavior within those parameters.
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I failed to mention that the last couple of years of my marriage was sexless. I tried to initiate intimacy but she kept refusing. Of course I got tired of it and said "See ya!"
Oh gosh Chow. I've known, and still know, many many military spouses, and the great majority of them DO do without. It just comes with the territory.
My sex drive seems to be tied to my husband. When he was away for weeks at a time...... nothing.... nada.... zilch. Plus, I wouldn't go out clubbing and stuff when he was gone, that encourages trouble and would make him worry.
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