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Old 01-23-2016, 12:14 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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If I'm out having a drink, going for a walk or cuddling up on the sofa there's usually physical contact between us like holding hands, on my arm, a kiss or 5 just basically make them feel special, But that's only if she's into all that if she's not then I'll know how to act accordingly


Me personally I do like the attention but if it's constant and in my face that can be too excessive.
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Old 01-23-2016, 12:16 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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No, that's too mushy, even for marshmallow lover. It can be annoying!
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Old 01-23-2016, 12:41 PM
 
Location: california
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If the attention is genuine and not superficial that's one thing .
but if it's plastic and thrown around like a 360 sprinkler it's meaningless/ .
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Old 01-23-2016, 02:53 PM
 
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Warm hugs
Giving lots of Soft kisses like on the neck and everywhere
Calling each other cute names like babe honey bunny
Giving cute texts like
I love you my puffy marshmallow
Cuddling
Gazing at each other eyes
Holding hands
Writing a small cute romantic poem
Being pat/massaged on the head
Grab on the cheeks
If my SO behaved like some of the things listed above, I would feel suffocated. I love being affectionate, but not every darn minute. As for ....puffy marshmallow, cheek grabbing, etc there are too many things on your list that I wouldn't appreciate. I'ld rather have a sext than a cute text.
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Old 01-23-2016, 06:38 PM
 
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Annoying!

That sounds like someone who has insecurities.
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Old 01-23-2016, 07:18 PM
 
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It would be too much for me, not my style.
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Old 01-23-2016, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Free From The Oppressive State
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Warm hugs
Giving lots of Soft kisses like on the neck and everywhere
Calling each other cute names like babe honey bunny
Giving cute texts like
I love you my puffy marshmallow
Cuddling
Gazing at each other eyes
Holding hands
Writing a small cute romantic poem
Being pat/massaged on the head
Grab on the cheeks
Warm hugs .....are the best.

Define "lots" because you know, beyond a couple...it starts to get annoying.

Cute names .....I reserve that for pets, not grown adults.

Cutesy texts like: I love you puffy marshmallow" .....??????????? WHAT?!!!?

Cuddling .....is fun.

Gazing at each others eyes .....Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Holding hands ...sometimes.

Writing small cute romantic poem: .....Not if it says anything like 'puffy marshmallow' in it.

Pat on the head? .....Just no.

Grab on the cheeks? .....WHY?
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Old 01-23-2016, 08:04 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I would LOVE it lol. I mean just cuddling would be fine w/ me. Ill take anything.
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Old 01-23-2016, 08:05 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Nope. I like affection, but not smothering affection.

Kisses every 10 seconds? Cheek grabbing? Cutesy texts? PUFFY MARSHMALLOW!?!?!?
No, just no.
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Old 01-23-2016, 08:24 PM
 
Location: U.S. (East Coast)
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I have a strong preference for submissive partners, and they tend to be like that..

So. Yes?

I think its cute when someone gets lovey on me.

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